Friday, 19 September 2014

on with the kink

3) How did you discover you were kinky?

when i had my first experiences, just opened up this whole new world for me

4) Any earlier experiences that in retrospect, hinted at your kinks?

Yes, but i dont mean to be evasive, but its not something im comfortable talking about

5)  What was your first kinky experience?

Being spanked otk by the first dominant i met, and i didnt like it lol, i still dont like it!

6)  Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy?

To be tied to a chair and watch him with another woman, to direct her in how to please him, what she should be doing etc...something i think best left as not sure i would be able to resist tearing her hair out!

7)  What's your favorite toy?

Cane.....although im guessing its meaning sex toy, in which case it would be vibrating egg

8)  Post a kinky image you find erotic


9)  Post a kink related song or video you enjoy


10)  What are your hard limits?

whatever the bossman says they are, he has lines he will not cross, thats all im saying about that

11)  What are your views on the ethics of kink?

Quite simply if one enjoys what they are doing and all are consenting.....go for it!

12) Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you?

Its fun, most of the time, it brings about such a vast array of emotions, i love the connection at those times between me and the bossman, i like having to endure, to be pushed past my confort zone...such a great high afterwards

13) How would you say real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink?

real life does not always match up to the fantasies one may have in their head, fantasies allow us to explore things that we may find appealing but in the cold light of day would run a mile from!  and there is nothing wrong with that, as above when i stated a fantasy have, i know i would hate it in reality..doesnt stop me thinking about it though

14) Post about a BDSM/kink activity your curious about and would like to try?

Permanent marking via being branded.....coming soon!  hopefully, to mark 10 years together, and he is thinking a permanent mark via single tail whip, i have come around to that idea, i like the thought of one right across my back

15)  What are the most difficult aspects of having a sexuality that involves kink or BDSM for you personally?

Just embracing that its ok to be this way, to not feel this need to want to know why or explain why i am like i am

16)  What misconception about kinky people would you most like to clear up?

its not like 50 shades of Gray...thank fuck....

17)  Any kinky/BDSM pet peeves?

the whole idea of there being a 'right' quite happy to do it the wrong way ta very muchly

crikey was hoping to get all these done and out the way...but not happening tonight.


  1. Love your answers Tori! Great answer to No 15 and Amen to 16 lol. A permanent mark ... wow!


  2. Wonderful answers, as always! Yes yes yes to 16 and 17!! lol.