TTWD ..i dont get it i really dont, i dont like the term it just seems non-descriptive, covers a broad area and whether we may like labels or not they have their use but ttwd doesnt in my opinion make a clear distinction of what actually the thing we do is! and i like clarity lol
For example someone may ask me if i like ice cream and yes i do, they could get me a bowl of strawberry ice cream but i dont like strawberry ice cream or coffee or rum n raisen i like chocolate, vanilla (haha) and mint flavours....but they are all still ice cream.....and this is how i feel about ttwd it is too random ie not specific enough for my liking. If you got to a shop and ask for an ice cream they are going to ask you what flavour...still with me lol
I like labels that give a more clearer picture, are understood, if i say i practice bdsm (label) in an M/s (label) dynamic and follow the principles of rack (label) then it gives a more clear definition of what i enjoy and engage in, the type of realtionship im in....rather than saying a ttwd which says very little.
Anyway thats my thoughts on that!