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How does orgasm denial make you feel? I know you said that you are constantly aroused but is there more than that? Im wandering about emotional feelings.
From mc kitten
Orgasm denial. Is this something you really wanted to do, or is it something that comes more from the Bossman? How does it work - are there set periods where you don't get to cum, or is just down to his whim? How do you feel about it? Do you love it? hate it? or a bit of both?
Orgasm denial was introduced by the bossman originally as a punishment way back when we first got together, i was, and still am not allowed to touch myself intimately in any way without his permission (barring washing and that time of the month) and if i did then i was denied orgasms, usually for about a week.
I hated it, because well who doesnt like having an orgasm lol, eventually, longer than it really should have been i learnt my lesson and its been years since i have disobeyed in this way.
In the last couple of years he has taken to denying me for long periods of time, the longest as far as i can recall has been about 5 months, at the moment its been perhaps 8 weeks ish since i have climaxed.
Although there are not necessarily set patterns, i know that if he has a planned 'hard' session in mind (which he will set aside a date for, usually a weekend, arrange to get kids farmed out lol) then i know that im not going to be getting any orgasms until that date (minimum of 4/5 weeks beforehand)....he always allows me orgasms at these times, it helps in associating pain with pleasure..but thats a whole other issue.
Being denied was something i initially didnt like at all, certainly not when it was for long periods of time, but it ingrained into me that my pleasure is for him to decide, if i get it and how i get it, it reinforces the mindset of his pleasure comes before mine.
The added advantage, which neither of was expecting, well i know i didnt is it revved up my sex drive, which has never been high, i feel like sometimes im constantly aroused, on edge and i initiate sex more than i ever did before.
So now, although yes there are certainly times where im desperate to cum for the most part i enjoy the sense of need it gives me, its been long enough now that im ok with it because its made me more confident sexually how im finding hard to explain..i guess because i desire sex more because it sates me even without orgasm.
Plus, when i do get to cum its bloody great, and he usually gets multiple orgasms out of me.
Hope thats covered it.