Monday 30 September 2013

An interview with....

The bossman.

I read this questionnaire over on Del Fonte's blog, and although we are no DD i thought for fun and to add a twist to it, adapting where necessary as its aimed at submissive's perspective, i would grill the bossman.

Was there a certain event from your life, that sparked the spanking (adapted to D/ and bdsm) interest?  If so feel free to share.

BM:  At university,  I bottomed to an older woman, I enjoyed the exchange but wanted to experience from the top point of view.

What are you often called by your bottom/submissive/slave?

BM:  Sir or Master generally speaking, you bastard does crop up on occasions usually proceeded with "I hate you"

We're building a big spanko fire, which implement would your bottom/sub/slave toss in?

BM:  Dressage whip

We all know how many punishments there are to choose from, spanking, corner time, lecturing etc, but what about rewards? Do you have a favourite reward that is used?  If not what's something you would like to use as a reward?

BM:  The reward is in knowing she is being pleasing and obedient.

Whats that one phrase, that when its used, she knows she is in trouble?

BM:  Tori would probably say it's when I say "Is that right?"

What's something you would like to cross off your spanking bucket list?  Being shy is not an option here people.

BM:  All crossed off.

Someone comes to you and says there just starting D/s.  Whats the biggest piece of advice you can give them?

BM:  Communicate with each other honestly.

We talked about spanking bucket list, now let's get a little more into it, what about a bdsm style bucket list, what would you like to cross off?

BM:  Nothing for me personally but there are things I would like to eventually have Tori experience.

Is there a punishment you thought you'd never try, but ended up trying it and finding it effective?

BM:  Nothing comes to mind, I prefer to use a punishment that fits the crime when appropriate.

If you bottom/sub/slave could take a break from a rule for one week, what rule would it be?

BM:  It would take her a week to decide what rule.

If you messed up and you offerred to let you bottom/sub/slave spank you, would she? why/why not?

BM:  She wouldn't, Tori would find it too distressing if I was to offer let alone consider it.

What is your favourite form of aftercare for your bottom/sub/slave?

BM: Laying in bed much later, talking it through.

If you could only use one implement here on out, what would it be?

BM: Cane.  Tori's favourite.

















20 comments:

  1. This one made mouse laugh out loud...


    "If you bottom/sub/slave could take a break from a rule for one week, what rule would it be?

    BM: It would take her a week to decide what rule"

    Oh goodness that would be EXACTLY what Daddy would say...

    But,
    mouse has given that one a bit of thought and since we have only ONE real rule...

    It's rather easy....

    Bawahahhahaa

    Hugs,
    mouse

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    1. lol mouse a few of the answers im not in agreement with but this one is spot on!!! in fact i would think about it for a week and then probably end up asking him what he thought!

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  2. Oh I love this idea Tori! How neat to peek a little inside the other side of your blog :) I am going to ask Daddy if he will let me interview Him this evening (although I am not sure He will be so amenable) xx

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    1. thanks...i thought it would be something different, a twist, i hope your Daddy gives it a go, its a bit of fun.

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  3. that was great...as mouse, the same one made me laugh too.

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    1. thankyou

      yeah well im reknowned for my indecisiveness lol

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  4. Oh this is wonderful! He has a sense of humor, I love it.

    "BM: Sir or Master generally speaking, you bastard does crop up on occasions usually proceeded with "I hate you" lol, nice to know that happens in other houses too.

    And seriously, the offer to spank him? I have been teased with it before, and just the tease is more distressing and awful than I can even put into words!

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    1. thanks lil

      When i call him a bastard my argument is its a term of affection..ahem..yeah lets stick with that lol

      oh he is spot on there, i couldnt, wouldnt..he's well my Master that would be just so wrong!

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  5. I agree with mouse. I found that comment very funny.

    Thanks BM.

    Cheers,

    joey

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    1. thanks joey

      its a rare occassion i encourage him onto my blog lol

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  6. LOL love it! funny funny... a week, huh?

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    1. lol yeah i am that bad with decision making..drives them all nuts here.

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  7. This is great! Thanks for sharing, though he nearly talked my ear off! ;)

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    1. lol yeah...i know, im the chatterbox, he doesnt say more than he has to....straight to the point!

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  8. This was fabulous! Great adaptations and thank you BOTH for sharing!!

    Hugs,
    Fiona

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    1. thanks, i thought it would make a change from my usual ramblings

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  9. So much said with such brevity :)
    At least he picked your favourite implement and not the dressage whip.

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    1. lol

      That dressage whip seriously has to go missing!

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  10. I love this, great to hear from BM and enjoyed the answers. That one cracked me up too. Thank you both for sharing.

    Hugs,
    Roz

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    1. thanks Roz

      It was fun, made a change..but normal service will be resuming lol

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