Im not finished..re the last post...ok so i know its been like an hour or so since i posted it....but
Yes..i have had more time to think and...
Because, i really do feel that she has projected her thoughts onto me.
ok so yes i admit im not always a very confident person, but you know thinking all about what we talked about..and especially the end part about her observation about how i say "i think..." a lot....and then when i wrote my last post...i have been dwelling on it more....and im not a happy camper.
I think she has over analysed why i say "i think" a lot....and oh i know all about over analysing!
it has nothing to do with needing validation or a lack of confidence...maybe its just simply the way i am....i think a lot, yes i overthink a lot.....
and im damned if im going to be made to feel that i have 'issues' that i really dont think i do.
You know maybe its simply that i have a lot going on at the moment, i dont handle change very well but many more people have real problems going on in their lives, and by comparison mine are very trivial....and maybe the best thing for me is to go with my dear old grans saying which is
if thrown in the water, you either choose to give in and sink or you swim with all that you got..
im a swimmer.