I am or should i say we are probably not the best examples of doing things the right or rather the commonly advised way, like the common advice for first meeting as well as others
1) have a safe call in place on first meeting....nope i didnt
2) dont 'play' on first meet..yep we did ..i know what a harlot!
3) dont 'play' under the influence of alcohol or drugs (not hard drugs)..yep we have and occassionally still do to both...albeit not heavy play ie bondage or edge play
This is me (us) i am not suggesting these guidelines are not followed..what im saying is they are just that..guidelines..not set in stone rules that should be followed at all costs.
My personal pet hates is bold statements outlining how something should be within ttwd and if your not that way well your clearly not submissive or dominant are you?, i have been here before and yes dammit im going there again......THERE IS NO RIGHT OR WRONG WAY yes im shouting.
Now im going back to my cage in the cellar to drink from my water bowl..coz obviously being a slave thats the way it is...yes thats sarcasm!