A friend of mine has asked me before if the bossman and i ever have normal sex? i find this amusing because really what is normal sex.....what she means is do we ever have sex without the kink aspect and the answer is no. We have never had sex or any sex acts without added extras, it could be im bound, it could be he is controlling my breath (i love breath play), it could be pain is applied simultanously..its just well not normal..whatever normal is.
I dont talk about our sex life a lot, in fact very little because submission and dominance is much much more than sex and well i find it difficult because really i prefer the mental aspects, the power exhange and yes s/m because these are whats more important to us.
Yesterday he was sat on the sofa and i was sitting opposite him i was bit on edge because it was planned that we would have a session, i wanted it but i also wasnt really 100% in the mood not that this matters to him so i thought a bit of distraction ok translate that as delaying the inevitable was in order. So i asked if i could suck his dick and he allowed me to..go me with the distracting technique..and then out of nowhere a whip strikes me on the back!!!where the fuck did that come from i dont recall it being within arms reach..he is lucky i have some level of self restraint he could have ended up with teeth marks on his dick hitting me like that unexpectantly.
I was only wearing a vest top so there was little protection and plenty of skin on show and well he is competent with the whip so he was getting me where he wanted and it stings but it also gets me in the mood so its win win really. Until i go and say something stupid and he decides my tits need some attention, the thing about this particular whip it doesnt need to be applied very hard to get marks and boy does it sting and i want it to stop so new tactic needed.
I beg to lick his ass, now as much as i love sucking his dick i love licking his ass more im quite odd in that when it comes to sexual acts the more something has that "ewww..yucky" reaction the more i love it i prefer anal to vaginal sex. He knows i love licking his ass and its something that can be used as a 'treat' or be denied as a punishment..thankfully the latter hasnt happened the threat of not being allowed to do it is enough..thats how much i love it.
There is a chair, its a queening chair but the design is great for also getting access to the ass as well as his dick and balls, so he agrees to my request (yay) and sits in the chair with me sat underneath.....oh im loving this chair! The disadvantage to this is it leaves my legs and pussy exposed and he still has the whip so whilst im busy attending to his ass my inner thighs and pussy are getting struck with the whip....i think he has most definitely cottoned on to my attempts to distract him from hurting me yet! I clamped my legs together and he instructed me to open up and i refused, big mistake, he told me to stop and to kneel in front of him..second mistake i continued more enthusiastically to lick his ass in a hope to appease him.
It didnt...i stopped, came out from underneath and got a rapid whipping on my back and was asked if i was going to do as i was told now? yep i can do that! game over...no more distractions...over the spanking bench i go.....im not sitting very comfortably at the moment but im not complaining about that, i love it.