A long distance relationship is what im in and have been for the last 5 years although we see each other regularly for whole weekends and communicate in between its not the most ideal situation but we make the best of it...does this make me less of a slave or not as submissive than those living together?
I think the first point is obviously its different its about there being different degrees or depths, im not kidding myself of course 24/7 living together is more in depth than my situation there is no room for argument there in my opinion...but they are both real.
Given a choice between physically kneeling at his feet or talking on the phone i will go for kneeling at his feet every single time, im still his slave though regardless there are still expectations he has of me when im not physically with him.
I dont think about what the future holds i focus on the now, as with any relationship as time goes on you grow especially once the intial excitment dies down (or sub frenzy as its called) not that the excitement ever goes away but you become more focused....its difficult to be focused in the beginning when its all so new, fresh and your exploring.
Im not perfect....no one is.....i still have many ways in which to grow but having read through some of my very early posts i cant believe how much my opinions/thoughts have changed, my submission is so much more absolute now than it was before.
So LDR are they real? yes very much so, they can work and they can mean just as much as any other relationship, its hard work at time, frustrating and full of ups and downs.....but so worth it...... doesnt that apply to all relationships regardless of the situation?