Im not leaving blogger, goodness me, no way, i need to have somewhere to express myself, and this is my somewhere.
I have spent the last few days going through my blogroll, reading comments i have left on peoples posts, over analysing what i have said to see if what i have wrote could be in any way interpreted as being offensive.
I know sometimes i can write a comment somewhere, read it back and think ''oh that didnt come across well" and i will comment again, in writing my own posts i try to be as honest as i can about my opinions, but they are just that..my opinions.
I offended someone, with a comment i made, i dont know whom because although they sent me an email, they failed to tell me who they were, or their blog name, and i dont recognise the email address, they asked if i could stop following them because they dont want..and i quote "your type of doormat slave on my followers list"....
I did reply making the point that i couldnt unfollow them if they didnt tell me whose blog it is im meant to be unfollowing!
Didnt receive a reply!
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Sorry you received such a nasty note. I don't what some people's problem is some days. I always find your comments insightful and well meant.
ReplyDeletethanks ancilla,
DeleteWhats annoying me is its made me paranoid that i could well comment on this persons blog again because i really dont have an idea who it is!
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Oh, and "Who peed in your wheaties today?" would have been my first thought about that email, though I probably wouldn't really reply that way. :)
ReplyDeletelmao, i fought really hard to not reply in a sarcastic, nasty tone but i didnt, i went as far as asking if they could tell me what i said....but as of yet no response!
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Yea...All I got today is that some people are entirely too full of themselves and should probably just fuck off. I am clearly in a sugar-coating kind of mood lol.
ReplyDeleteMaybe the follower gadget is just not for them?
Yep, i will go with that lol
DeleteIts just bugging me that i really have no clue who it is and what i said that was so offensive!
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But I'm such a nice doormat!!!!
ReplyDeleteAnd you can comment and say whatever you want.
Sorry you had such a stupid, ignorant interaction.
If they won't tell you, you can't do anything about it...maybe this is going around.
lol you are indeed
DeleteThats the thing, i cant do nothing about it, because really if i know what i said, then i would happily respond further to clarify whatever i said that was so wrong!
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You can't make everybody happy. Doormat slave is pretty funny though, that has never been a thought when reading here, ever.
ReplyDeleteNo, i cant, thats not something i considered, but im just peeved that i dont know what i said wrong!
DeleteI confess it did make me chuckle, clearly they have that impression of me though.
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What lil wrote...
ReplyDeleteSeriously...Some people are too silly to take with more than a grain of salt.
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It upset me a lot at the time, i really need to get past caring what people think..but i do, i know i shouldnt especially in this situation, but i just feel that i cant explain myself when i dont know what i said to cause this person to be so upset!
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Good gods - that's a lot of effort to expend on their part to be such an idjit. I imagine i'm too extreme and doormat-y for some and not nearly slavey enough for others - how could one person possible fit everyone else's ideal? I love your comments - always thought provoking and - like your posts - feel genuine and sincere.
ReplyDeleteOh, i agree, and it was one lengthy email, but yet never actually addressed what i said to make them so vexed!!!
Deletethank you gg, i appreciate it
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I second guess myself all the time, it's annoying really. I haven't read anything of yours that would be worth second guessing.
ReplyDeleteWhat is the deal with people?!?! There is a block button...
Maybe you could do a google search with their email and find their blog that way?
DeleteIm terrible for second guessing, i know the written word is open to interpretation so i do try to think about what im commentating on!
DeleteI did that but it came up with nothing useful, mostly it seemed articles relating to engineeering!
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What is wrong with some people? Door mat slave you? Don't make me laugh!
ReplyDeleteHaving said that, I would probably react in the same way as you. Come out come out whoever you are and stop hiding behind this level of anonymity!
lol the doormat part made me chuckle...he wishes lmao
DeleteI was upset, then i went to angry, now im just irritated at the stupidity of it!
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It was not me! You have never said an offensive thing to me. Now that I've cleared that up .....
ReplyDeleteThat person needs to go fuck themselves! Not a true one of us, as we don't judge each others lifestyles. We offer perspectives. PC we are not! I love your blog and your insight. I just wish you'd share more scenes as I'm super intrigued on your degree of masochism, how you nuture His sadism and encourage Him to push both you and Himself . ☺
lol i know it wasnt you, i know your email...or you could have used another one....im kidding!
Deletethank you.
I don share many scenes often, and the only answer i can give as to why is because there not always ones im comfortable in sharing, and plus somethings i like to keep between us, however i shall try to address what you have mentioned here....let me think on it lol
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I understand why you don't share. I totally respect it. I just want to know more about what I shared. ☺
DeleteTori, people suck. This is your blog, you can say whatever you want. Screw them if they don't like it. That just happened to me recently. Someone didn't like what I had written about what was going on in my life. It's my freaking life and I'm writing about it. If you don't like it, don't read it. Don't take it personal and share your journey whenever and however you want to. Hugs. K
ReplyDeletethank you
DeleteIts horrible isnt it? but yes you are right, no one has to read here, or anywhere that there not comfortable with, i figure if one cant say something nice or positive, say nothing at all.
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Oh Tori, I'm so sorry, and so glad you aren't letting it put you off blogging. I definitely hope you will continue to comment on my blog. I always love hearing from you and find your comments helpful and encouraging.
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thank you Roz
Deletemy only complaint with you Roz is you dont blog enough!!! lol
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Ditto that. Roz doesn't blog enough. :)
DeleteSorry that person bugged you tho tori. People just suck sometimes.
Really!?! Grrr. Sorry you had a nasty note. If someone didn't want you to follow their blog, then they should have not put a blog up online for public consumption. I don't get people sometimes. Hugs!
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