Friday, 3 April 2015

Ok, 2 days in and not going too well

April is meant to be a post positive month, i was set that challenge, i was so determined to stick to it, i was.

Then i logged on, had 2 comments pending approval, and yeah well, hmm one not a nice one at all, hence the previous post, i wasnt upset, but angry, what can i say, i vented in my own space.

I shouldnt care what people think, Master often tells me that, i know he is right.

So before the Easter break i shall leave on a positive note....

ummm all my body parts are in tact...cant get more positive than that!


  1. Hi Tori, LoL at your last comment. I just read your previous post. I'm so sorry you have had to deal with such judgemental comments. What matters is that we know it works for us and we maybe shouldn't care what others think. But that is so much easier said than done.


  2. Vent away - it's your blog.
    have a great Easter (weather sucks here, hope it's better by you.)

  3. We cannot help but think or be affected sometimes by what people think or say of us and to an extent we all seek approval on one level or another, nilla/work/home/family etc or otherwise. As much as I would like to say we are not judgemental, we are all to some degree, maybe not in M/s BDSM but life in general or both. I can hold my hand up and say I know I have given people a wide birth more than once in my life and judged a person by their looks. My bad, and I hold my hand up high for that. If anything M/s taught me not to be so judgemental in my nilla side of my life. I find it harder to understand when people don`t care or have the ability just to shrug it all off their shoulders, when a comment is made, particularly if it involves me and my poly group. Which is one of the reasons I do not have my own blog, as you know. You care because that is simply you tori, you are committed to your chosen life style. Hold your head up high for what you believe as you always have. There will always be someone that purely through ignorance, the inability to be open to other ideals, even if it is not for them, or simply enjoy the fact, they can hide behind the computer, hurt someone through their words. Don`t let the bastards get you down, see them for what they are and carry on blogging. Nice Anon Xx