Fact: everyones relationship is unique to them, just because you dont 'get' it, dont knock it and dont judge
Fact: dont state that a particular activity in s/m is harmful when you clearly dont have a clue..fucking safety police who dont know what they are talking about
Fact: saying in a comment "oh my Master/Mistress/God/ruler supreme/best dom ever...wouldnt treat me like that because he cares about how i feel" is condescending, and you just come across as a twat!
Fact: for some people having rituals is important to them, they have meaning, perhaps its a way of expressing/acknowledging the power exchange, whatever the reason, it might be tedious and boring to you, and thats fine, but im not you
Fact: i really couldnt give a toss if you think my relationship is unhealthy....stop reading here! simple!
right, thats me done until the Easter holidays are over.
yes i do feel better now, ta
*really should learn to ignore it, i know, but sometimes it just gets too much*