Wednesday 5 February 2014

A peek on the Bossman

Its our anniversary this month, 8 years since we got together....im not sure which one of us deserves a medal!

I thought as im normally rambling about me, my issues, my rants etc...i would give 10 tit bits about the Bossman, 5 vanilla and 5 not.....suppose i better let him have a look in on occasion.

Vanilla

1.  his hobbies are varied, he is a caver and is a volunteer of cave rescue in the local area, scuba diving, has a pilots licence, motorbikes, ham radio, an obsession with indian food, and although not a smoker he does enjoy a good spliff on the odd occasion.

2.  he is well travelled, worked a few years in Africa and the USA, among other places, 90% of his travels are work related....he isnt a fan of holidays for the purpose of relaxation!

3.  the only sport he really enjoys (watching that is) is rugby, and when its on i dont get a look in...offered blow jobs, attempted distractions with shoving the cane in front of his face....nope, im pushed aside in favour of watching men run about a field throwing an odd shaped ball!

4.  he is well spoken, articulate, but as soon as he gets in the car he goes through a personality transplant, every other driver on the road is a twat, the satnav gets a shitload of verbal abuse, he gets out the car and he returns to normal!

5. his work is very important to him, i dont believe he will ever fully retire, he is very good at what he does and is considered an expert in his profession, he has been on television programs, hosts a radio slot, wrote articles for magazines and has had papers published in his respective professions journals....i find his intelligence quite intimidating at times, but also i find it very sexy.

non-vanilla

1.  his favourite implement to use is the cane, thankfully its also my favourite.

2.  he is strict, he has no tolerance for excuses (good reason yes, i have tried arguing there is no difference, apparently there is!) with him its a simple choice "you either choose to obey or you dont" a dont generally has unpleasant consequences.

3.  it was when he was at uni that he first discovered kink..but as a sub for a woman, he realised as did she that he was better suited to being dominant, he liked it and well that was that

4.  as strict and unyielding as he is, he is very loving, im completely secure in that i know he will do what is best for me/us, he makes me feel safe

5.  tit torture is probably what he enjoys most, if he had to choose a favourite 'activity', i was so naive in the beginning...i didnt realise all the possible ways tits can be tormented...some i wish i still didnt know!



22 comments:

  1. Tori,
    Happy Anniversary!
    This peek into Bossman has been great :)

    The caver thing, is very cool.

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    1. thanks Bleuame

      Yeah i couldnt do it, did years ago way back when i was in college and it just scared the life out of me lol

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  2. Happy Anniversary. It's always so nice to hear a bit about the other half of the blogs I read :)

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    1. thanks Faerie, i agree its nice to know a bit more about the other half we dont 'see'.

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  3. Happy Anniversary! Loved getting to know a little more about your Bossman. Thanks for sharing

    hugs
    p

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    1. thanks p,

      i thought he deserved a bit more of a mention lol

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  4. Your Master drives like mine does! Very grumpy.

    I love all these tid bits!

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    1. lol ancilla sometimes i get jealous that the sat nav gets more abuse than i do!

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  5. Happy anniversary! He sounds perfect.

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    1. thanks Renee

      OOh dont say that, you will make his head even bigger lol

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  6. Thanks for sharing the tidbits ... it's always fun to get a peak at the other half of the D/s or M/s.
    Happy Anniversary to you & Bossman!!!

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    1. thankyou

      It is, i enjoy hearing about the other half, the things that we wouldnt normally mention.

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  7. Happy Anniversary!
    obsession with Indian food..... sounds awfully familiar, can't think why :)
    hugs
    DF

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    1. lmao, i remember you saying that your husband was an Indian food junkie as well....i enjoy it but not to that extent!

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  8. Happy Anniversary to you both!

    Thank you for sharing the tidbits about Bossman. I enjoyed getting to know a bit about him. His hobbies sound fascinating and he would make a perfect 'kiwi bloke' with his love of rugby LoL

    Hugs,
    Roz

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    1. thanks Roz

      he does have some interesting hobbies, some i don mind but rugby....ugh, ok its watchable..just lol

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  9. Happy Anniversary.

    Thank you for sharing some of the Bossman's characteristics.

    Hugs,
    joey

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    1. thanks joey

      I figured he should have a mention lol

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  10. Happy Anniversary!

    Really enjoyed reading this, it's great to get some insight into the character on the other side of the bed, as it were!

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    1. thankyou

      Lol i like that phrase, i figured he should have a look in!

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  11. Happy anniversary! I enjoyed reading about your Bossman. Very interesting man.

    xo

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    1. thanks Bonnie

      I find him interesting, i love it when he talks to me about his past experiences, some are just not publishable lol

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