A peek on the Bossman

Its our anniversary this month, 8 years since we got together....im not sure which one of us deserves a medal!

I thought as im normally rambling about me, my issues, my rants etc...i would give 10 tit bits about the Bossman, 5 vanilla and 5 not.....suppose i better let him have a look in on occasion.

Vanilla

1.  his hobbies are varied, he is a caver and is a volunteer of cave rescue in the local area, scuba diving, has a pilots licence, motorbikes, ham radio, an obsession with indian food, and although not a smoker he does enjoy a good spliff on the odd occasion.

2.  he is well travelled, worked a few years in Africa and the USA, among other places, 90% of his travels are work related....he isnt a fan of holidays for the purpose of relaxation!

3.  the only sport he really enjoys (watching that is) is rugby, and when its on i dont get a look in...offered blow jobs, attempted distractions with shoving the cane in front of his face....nope, im pushed aside in favour of watching men run about a field throwing an odd shaped ball!

4.  he is well spoken, articulate, but as soon as he gets in the car he goes through a personality transplant, every other driver on the road is a twat, the satnav gets a shitload of verbal abuse, he gets out the car and he returns to normal!

5. his work is very important to him, i dont believe he will ever fully retire, he is very good at what he does and is considered an expert in his profession, he has been on television programs, hosts a radio slot, wrote articles for magazines and has had papers published in his respective professions journals....i find his intelligence quite intimidating at times, but also i find it very sexy.

non-vanilla

1.  his favourite implement to use is the cane, thankfully its also my favourite.

2.  he is strict, he has no tolerance for excuses (good reason yes, i have tried arguing there is no difference, apparently there is!) with him its a simple choice "you either choose to obey or you dont" a dont generally has unpleasant consequences.

3.  it was when he was at uni that he first discovered kink..but as a sub for a woman, he realised as did she that he was better suited to being dominant, he liked it and well that was that

4.  as strict and unyielding as he is, he is very loving, im completely secure in that i know he will do what is best for me/us, he makes me feel safe

5.  tit torture is probably what he enjoys most, if he had to choose a favourite 'activity', i was so naive in the beginning...i didnt realise all the possible ways tits can be tormented...some i wish i still didnt know!