Friday 8 February 2013

Its Friday....im going random

I know my language can be shall we say 'colourful' at times on here and i do get picked up on it, but you should see the way he talks to his sat nav (which has a female programmed voice) she gets more abuse thrown at her than i do! im quite convinced he goes through a temporary personality transplant the moment he gets in the car....is it disturbing that sometimes im jealous of the bitch.

To quote Jerry Hall

"My mother said it was simple to keep a man, you must be a maid in the living room, a cook in the kitchen and a whore in the bedroom"

Can we not just hire the first two..problem solved....although knowing how fussy i am about cleaning (slight ocd in that area) maybe not.....but the cook i could go with, i enjoy cooking i do, im just not that great at it.

Should i consider putting a disclaimer at the start of every post? maybe something like this:

*these are my words, expressing my thoughts, opinions and feelings they are not intended to cause offence nor are they implying that this is how you should do things, this blog is not a how to manual, a rule book or god forbid certainly do not mistake it for an example of being "the perfect slave/sub" you will be disappointed*

Actually thats not a bad idea, no one would get upset about being judged (and hands up im guilty of getting upset over comments i have recieved on here), and maybe just maybe it will avoid those "what if he wants to remove a limb" sort of questions and possibly but im probably pushing it, people wont feel the need to inform me im being abused.

I love cheese on toast.

I think too much, i question, im interested in peoples opinions whether i agree or not, blogger gives me an outlet to express what my thoughts are, as great as the bossman is he cant understand how i feel about everything or what its like (coz well he isnt submissive and he is a man...say no more!) and i have so many thoughts in my head i like getting them out and getting other peoples thoughts.

Cruelty is being served mushy peas, torture is being made to eat them.

Blogger compensates for the fact that i dont know anyone in r/l that i can identify with about ttwd or whom i can 'talk' with, there is no local community and we no longer engage in meeting with others (unless that changes, but unlikely). ...it can get lonely and this is my outlet.

I have all my limbs and he has no desire to remove them, phew thats such a relief.

I love card games, poker is my favourite, im damn good at playing chess as well if i do say so myself.

Im embarrassed to admit that when my daughter got Just Dance 4 game on the Wii for xmas i was addicted to the point that on my day off playing it, the time went so quick before i knew it 7 hours had gone by! (you have never seen a body move so fast when i realised the time and they were all due home very soon) im still crap at dancing though and i have been banned from playing it....by my daughter!  and i have always swore im not a computer game person.

Thank goodness its the weekend, i plan on having Saturday morning lazing in bed with my book, that plan will not go my way.
































12 comments:

  1. tori,

    I enjoy your candor; hard play is difficult to comprehend even by some BDSM people.

    We are lucky to have the blogger community so we can share our thoughts and experiences.

    I hope you have a relaxing weekend.

    Hug,
    joey

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    1. Thanks joey

      Yes and i can understand why it is difficult because i suppose for many its not well normal lol

      Yep im so relieved i kept up with blogging its a supportive community.

      Hope your weekend was relaxing, mine is not there all asleep!

      x

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  2. You know I always love your blog. I see so much of me in it. I have the dance game too, but our mat is broken, so sad.

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    1. thank ancilla

      OOh we dont need a dance mat with ours, i know its sad but just so much fun lol

      x

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  3. You still have all your limbs?? Lol.

    Blogger works much the same way for me...Maybe that's the root of all my babysitting issues...

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    1. i do lil yes, i havent quite worked up to that level yet lol

      Of course if i recall your quite isolated where you live too, i feel for you with the babysitting issues it cant always be easy.

      x

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  4. Mushy peas...ewww, lol :) From one ocd cleaner to another, I love your candor and am so happy you have a place to share it.

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    1. i know right....they are bloody disgusting lol

      you have the cleaning issue too, im better than what i was but i still well lets just say its not unknown for me to get up in the middle of the night to go clean!

      x

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  5. Random, i like random...random is good.

    Your colorful writing, and open honesty is what makes you blog so wonderful.

    Your questioning is what challenges one to think.

    And your opinioes open doors for more conversation, more learning.

    Torture is eating brussel sprouts as well. That could possibly be one of the worse things a Dom could do to me... lol



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    1. thankyou Anna May

      im a firm believer in questioning within reason, there are times its not appopriate..well with him that is but on here im let loose lol

      Brussel sprouts yuck..yes they definitley fit the torture category.

      x

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  6. Loved this post tori and your opinions. I can't think of anything worse than playing it down because everybody else does. We are all entitled to our opinion even if it isn't what you might want to hear. I call it... Looking at things from a different angle :)
    It can get lonely without any face to face discussions about this lifestyle but blogging is the next best thing huh? :)
    Any time you may want to have a chat, feel free to email me.

    Dee x

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    1. thankyou Dee

      Yes thats a better way of putting it, looking at things from a different angle and healthy debate im all for as long as its not abusive.

      It can be lonely but yep blogging compensates for that and likewise feel free to email me anytime..i dont think there are many uk bloggers on here!

      x

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