He doesnt like being told "no" from me that is, unless its a 'no' that means a yes...and they (men) say we are confusing!
When he asks something of me that really at that time im not wanting to do for any particular reason, maybe i just dont feel like it then i tend to say "if it pleases you" this tells him that i dont want to but i will of course submit and i do whatever he has asked.
The no that means a yes times are when we sit talking about us more precise is when he taps into the fantasies in my head and he will mention something specific and i protest that "no not interested in that at all" and he will smile that infuriating all knowing smug grin.
He will ask why im not interested and i hate this because its hard sometimes to verbalise why so i go for the option of "dont know" and i fall into this trap nearly everytime because he never just accepts that as an answer oh no.
He will start describing a fantasy and i put on this act of not being interested and he always asks "are you wet" and i always say "no"....seriously its like this near on everytime like its become a game, and he will put his hand between my legs and yeah of course im wet and he well yeah he just does that smug grin.
He never brings me to orgasm...no....he is playing the game....and of course im horny at this point and he moves in for the kill "dont you want to please me?" yeah but im still not going to admit that actually that fantasy does turn me on..oh..no..me im going to hold out for as long as possible...i will win this time.
He continues "you know that it turns you on, you can protest, you can deny, but we both know that no matter what ideas I put in your head and the more filthier and nastier they are, you love it, you want it"
"Isnt that right slut?"
only one answer to that....
"no"
tori,
ReplyDeleteWell done. I can just imagine you saying "no" with the look that says "yes Sir."
Hug,
joey
lol thats near spot on...i think i have a certain 'look' like doms do as well!
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He's never happy with the no that means yes - He always makes me choke out the yes. Although - i have a feeling it is the very same thing going on and that they both get the same out of it in each case. Opposite words - same sense.
ReplyDeleteIm really bad at verbalising that i do indeed like something, he will get a yes out of me eventually, sometimes he will wait me out and sometimes he will drag it out of me lol
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So great. I was just thinking about this sort of thing today.
ReplyDeleteI think its a common theme, perhaps its that element of not wanting to admit we desire something because its not considered the 'norm'?
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They always know when the no means a yes,don't they. There are several things we talk about that one will say she is not interested in or scared of but she is really very curious about it. This probably means we will end up doing it at some point.
ReplyDeleteYep i think so. Sometimes the fantasies are ones that we wouldnt do and some are, he just wants to know and encourage me to embrace these thoughts i have rather than have me think there 'wrong' which is something i do struggle with.
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I so know where you are coming from with this. Master has said something that has scared the bageezus outta me. Even though it scares me i still get very wet.
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DeleteI find that fear is a huge turn on and i still cant get my head around why that is lol
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Well you know what Einstein said about Insanity...it's doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different response (paraphrased there). You are sooo funny. I don't know why we tell them no when they KNOW that's not what our deepest desires are. I don't know why we deny them our deepest desires. Oh well...I guess, it's what we do :)
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fiona
lol Einstein was spot on...i really need to not be so predictible next time...that might throw him!
DeleteI dont know why we do it lol but yes its pointless to deny he knows be better than i know myself!
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are you writing transcripts from my living room now?
ReplyDeleteoh lil you know i think its a common trait well its certainly something i have a habit of doing, i think i just dont like to admit that i have these desires even ones that we would most likely never do nevertheless they are there.
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