Monday 8 October 2012

Arranged kidnapping..its the fear

Friday we was chatting to a pro Domme (lets call her Mrs A) friend of ours and one of the areas she specialises in is arranged kidnappings along with her partner whom is a pro Dom and she was telling us about a kidnapping scene that was going ahead that evening, they are also a lifestyle couple.

Anyway the kidnapping was going to be outside McDonalds, the police have to be informed and its all done very efficiently, the 'victim' is a femsub and although she knew that she was going to be kidnapped she was oblivious to when it would be, could be weeks, months after first agreeing to this scenario.  She is then taken to a dungeon and interrogated by her Dom whom had arranged it all.

When Mrs A was telling us this i kept glancing at Master to gauge his interest because the idea of being kidnapped holds no appeal to me at all even if deep down i knew it was arranged, thankfully he said it did not hold an interest for him either.  I do like the idea of having an interrogation 'scene', being tortured etc but Master said one threat of the whip and you would spill all..ok he has a point there! but still i think it could be fun.

Mrs A was explaining that for the 'victims' who are kidnapped its the fear they enjoy, having no idea when its going to happen and when it does although deep down they know its been set up there is still that anxiety, and some really put up a good fight.  I do get the fear element, being afraid of the bossman is a huge turn on even though i know im safe the fear is very real its all associated with being completley vunerable for me which i enjoy.

Its a common fantasy, well it certainly keeps Mrs A busy she does on average 4 a month, its similar to 'fantasy rape' i imagine which is something i find very appealing, to have sex when i really dont want to, being completley taken by force and unprepared....the closest we have got is when he tied me down and fucked my ass brutally with very little lube, i was whimpering and when he pulled out i screamed at him not to stop..so he didnt..yummy..but what i desire is to be wanting him to stop and he doesnt.

I probably should be careful what i desire.

11 comments:

  1. I read a whole book that was based on the fantasy kidnapping scenes. I am not sure I am all that intrigued with the either, but I get the concept.

    And yes - be careful what you wish for. For me, it is pain. And others. Preferably both at the same time.

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    1. Yes i have read a book Kitty Thomas (who is amazing btw) and i really enjoyed it but to experience it no really holds no appeal.

      lol I should no better but sometimes curiosity gets the better of me!

      x

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  2. Yes, Tori you probably should but none of is can really control what we desire.

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    1. lol i know but like you said i cant control what i desire.

      x

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  3. We have discussed this and I think it would be really exciting personally. But I don't have something like the threat of a specific implement that would make me spill all, lol. Speaking of which, would it be possible to post a picture of said dreaded whip? You talk so much about it I am curious!!

    love, squirrel

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    1. I can see the appeal but yet its not something that really triggers anything for me or for him.

      I believe the whip is an Alex Cobra whip (he is a reputable whip maker in the uk) i dont have a picture of one actually used (in otherwords i cant be assed to nag him lol) but this is one similar to the one he uses

      http://cobrawhips.com/pt/800x600/img/24strand4ftbullwhip/24strand4ft.jpg

      I would probably manage a few but if used at full strength its well yeah i wouldnt get far lol

      xx

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  4. I have seen and written about three interrogation scenes. I was blown away by the intensity of the scenes.

    Hug,
    joey

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    1. oh i shall have to go and search for them on your blog it does appeal to me..thanks.

      xx

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  5. I'm with you. I have very little interest in an arranged kidnapping. I don't know why, it just doesn't really flip my switches. Play rape, though, that is fun. I always have to act my part, because I haven't actually had a time when I wanted him to stop. A few times with anal have come really close to that, with a lot of screaming and saying no, stop. Wanting him to stop but not really wanting to stop.

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    1. Yes thats exactly how i feel about it.

      Its funny isnt that whole wanting them to stop but not wanting them to, at the time sometimes i genuinely hate it but if he stopped i would be well pissed off lol

      xx

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  6. An arranged kidnapping would be amazingly great for me, I think. It is one of my admittedly-many fantasies. I would spill all right away so my dominant wife would have to come up with some other scenario than interrogation because that sort of scene would probably last only 3 nanoseconds lol.

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