Wednesday 22 August 2012

Just weeding

Perhaps im just feeling out of sorts, i dont know but little trivial things are irritating me (no not pmt) like he always steals the pillows when we go to bed because we generally watch a bit of television or read and right now that little minor issue is pissing me off, yeah i know petty but its well little things like that.....im feeling that im on the verge of having a full on explosion of temper and its not going to take much to trigger it.

So i thought i would work it off in the garden, no idea why, i don't particularly like gardening...yes im feeling miserable..no scrap that im feeling sorry for myself because he is working a lot and i remember a few years ago he said once he went down to a 4 day week it would calm down...oooh a pig has just flown past the window!  and instead of making it easier for him when he is so busy im moaning albeit indirectly im trying not to let it build up into something its not...because its not nothing new really..he is always busy and i get that, i have always known that the man is not one to be idle..he always has something on.

So im going to kill some weeds instead...well at least what i think are weeds..i havent a clue really..my philosophy is if i dont like the look of them they get dug up.






10 comments:

  1. Hey! That's my gardening philosophy too. and probably my dating one as well.

    It's good to blow off the little things, but seriously, your pillows? We have a claim on ours to the point that H and I use different color pillow cases so there is no confusion. (He started that, not me!) So, I've got your back on this one, girl. ;)

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    1. I know its just wrong isnt it....i do like your idea of colour co-ordinated ones, its either that option or resisting the temptation to smother him with one lol

      x

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  2. Alpha has this thing where EVERY time he gets in bed, he throws back all the covers. All the way. And it drives me bonkers.

    It's hard when we get in that place where the little things start adding up and feeling like mountains isn't it.

    Hope the weeding helps!

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    1. lol lil ummm thats something i do so perhaps that trait is just as bad!

      Yes its difficult because its like you know your starting to get irritated, you try to contain it and sometimes it just spirals out of control and really over petty things.

      the weeding was strangely theraputic lol

      xx

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  3. Little things do tend to add up after a while. Hope weeding helps. It usually helps mouse to something mindless.

    Hugs,
    mouse

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    1. hi mouse

      They do yes and i shouldnt let it build up but i do..i should have learnt by now its silly...the weeding helped because it does distract if im giving something to focus on.

      xx

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  4. It's not fair, is it?! I know when Daddy is really busy with a project from work that I wish he'd pay more attention to me...yeah I'm selfish that way, lol!

    Love,
    Kitty

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    1. hi kitty

      I dont think its selfish, i think its human nature because we feel dependencey on them so when they are busy it causes anxiety...that my theory anyway lol

      xx

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  5. Watch out weeds!!!!...laughs

    blossom x

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