We have never argued the bossman and i, not as in full scale screaming shouting arguments, not because we are this perfectly harmonious couple, but because you cant row and argue with someone who wont retaliate.
And he doesnt, he has never shouted at me, raised his voice and emphasised tone yes, but nope he has never shouted, he wont engage me in arguing....and sometimes its absolutley infuriating when one person is giving it 'beans' and the other is just calmly taking it without comment or action (for the time the ranting is going on).
We disagree on many of a subject, this is certainly not a relationship where its a case of "if Master says it is right, it is right' not in the context of having opinions about life in general, and as much as i put him on a pedestal...it doesnt make his views, opinions anymore valid than mine.
When i wrote that last post, i wasnt being brave lol, i was totally pissed off with him (still am a little) and this is my little corner of the world, where within reason he wont hold me accountable for my rants.....because ranting at him directly is pointless so i need to let off steam somewhere!
and i hate that....when im mad at him but i have calmed down from the ranting..all it takes is him saying "good girl" and whatever i was mad at him for fades into the background, it doesnt matter...because i just want to be that "good girl".