Monday 8 June 2015

Oh. Im motivated now.

Im a terrible procrastinator, not in everything, but sometimes i need motivation.

When i signed up to Fetlife, the reason was at the time there was the scare with blogger and images, so with many possibly going elsewhere to blog, i felt Fetlife would be good for staying in contact with those bloggers that moved on.

I wrote a tiny piece on the profile page, with the comment that i would add more later, and i was going to, i was, but when blogger did a u-turn it wasnt a priority anymore.

When i asked for permission to join, Master was happy for me to do so, i said i would contribute to Fetlife, be active, and well i havent been....and....now im motivated because pics have been put up.....same ones that has been posted on here, i think.....oh joyful!  oh and gee thanks ancilla for encouraging him lol

When i think about using Fetlife, what i want is to keep it associated with blogger, in the respect that my friends list is fellow bloggers, what i dont want is past and potential play partners having access to my Fetlife profile, not that i have anything to hide, but rather quite simply i dont want it used for seeking out others.

Because lets face it if one does play with others, one of the first things that is generally asked is "are you on Fetlife" and thats understandable, i have checked out play partners profiles on Fet, get more information about them, opinions etc.

With blogger the information i put out here is contained, with Fetlife it isnt so much, and thats what concerns me.  I dont want my Fetlife profile as a means of seeking others, and he is ok with that, the solution is to have a separate (unlinked) profile for that purpose....and he can write, post photos of what he likes.

But anyway, now i have been 'motivated' im going to make Monday and Thursday Fetlife days, where i commit to contributing in some form, today i think i shall work on my profile...although have no idea what to put, and yeah lets see how it goes.




10 comments:

  1. Yeah, Fetlife, that place I dash in and out of, which I've just done again. Really no idea whether I feel safe there or not.

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    1. Im taking it slowly, but im starting to see how it can be a little addictive, its privacy that concerns me the most...but im going to give a good go on there.

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    1. I couldnt believe it!!! nowhere is safe for me.... Big Brother is indeed everywhere lol

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  3. I sent you a friend request there! Glad you are joining in over on FL.

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    1. Thank you...yep im going to try to interact more.

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  4. I feel safer on Fetlife than on blogger. It sits behind a firewall and can't be randomly reached by people from work etc. Of course the chances of being reached her or there is probably slim. i also need to do more over there. :)

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    1. I hadnt thought of it like that, but its more i worry about people 'finding' me that know me in real time.

      Yes you should, i have and im surprised, because i never thought i would!

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  5. Yes!
    I get this so much, it's nice to see you over there :-)

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    1. thanks

      im enjoying it for the most part, there have been moments where i have read something and thought "bite your tongue tori" lol...but that can apply to here as well.

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