Wednesday 23 April 2014

a mark of time

Had a lovely Easter weekend, a quiet one for once which im not complaining about, as much as i love to have family and friends over it was nice to just not have to think about entertaining.  Did go to a friends house on Saturday night for dinner, 12 of us in total, just lovely to wind down in great company with lots of laughs, especially when the hosts 4yr old announced "daddies been to the toilet and blocked it again"...ahh you can always count on kids to show you up!

I have been thinking a lot lately about my permanent mark, i have been wanting one for a few years now, i did like the idea of a tattoo, i already have one on my thigh, but the bossman isnt too keen on tattoos, and it got forgotten about until a month or so ago when i asked him if i could have one.

As he mentioned in the answers to his questions, he is considering using the single tail to mark me, and honestly that was the first time it came to my attention that he was thinking of this, he did in our discussion of marking me give me the opportunity to choose how i would like to be marked, but me being me and being crap with making decisions said i would prefer he chose....clearly i need to be better at making decisions!

I did consider the violet wand, as with an attachment it can be used for branding but the brand is only temporary although it does last a long while, months, but it defeats the object of wanting a permanent mark...but yet branding has its appeal ....its something i think im going to look into a bit more.

I am excited about it, to have something permanent that marks me as his, not that its necessary, i know im his, but its like the symbolism of the collar, which i dont have as he places no value on them, and yeah one might argue that if something were to go wrong, with us, i would be stuck with it, unlike a collar that can be removed....but if that were to happen, its a reminder of a time in my life that i have no regrets about.




6 comments:

  1. Can't sleep tonight, darn insomnia so here I am in blogland.

    Glad you had a lovely Easter. The dinner party sounded great. So funny the comment from the hosts 4 yo. Kids huh lol.

    I love the symbolism. I wear a vanilla collar and love the fact everyone can see it but only we know what it represents.

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. oh you have my sympathy re the insomnia, i have always been a restless sleeper, and its not uncommon for me to get up in the night.

      ahh kids yes.....you got to love them lol

      I love symbolism, i wanted a collar....well still would like one but the bossman just has no interest in them, so a permanent mark is the way i would like to go.

      x

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  2. Re: violet wand marking, Omega said if the process is repeated it will become quite permenent. He said the design should be simple enough tho, to avoid blurriness.

    Just 2 cents...or is that pence?

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    1. lol yeah its pence

      oh mouse thanks ever so much for this info, its certainly something im going to discuss with the bossman, im very intrigued by this...but

      im imagining it would be very painful, perhaps more than i would be able to cope with....but im still intrigued!

      x

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  3. I was branded a couple of times with a special cane. A "N" was cut into my skin. But, it was gone in ten days.

    Hug,
    joey

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    1. now my mind is wandering about this special cane lol

      10 days is effective, but im really after permanent.

      x

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