Thursday 30 January 2014

Backfired...an apology

Im not going to apologise for what i said re last post, because i stand my ground in that i think there is a huge difference between offering advice, opinions etc and telling someone how they should be, and i believe it was quite offensive to suggest that one knows better than someone else what is good/right for them.

However, it was wrong (inappropriate?) of me to take what was sent to me in a private email and make fun of it in my blog which is in the public arena , my intentions were not nasty but rather i found it funny and i didnt think or consider that by doing this it reflected poorly on me, and i have been reminded of this.

So i apologise.

12 comments:

  1. Well poop! ... sorry you got "reminded". For what it's worth, I think we (the submissive types) understood where you were coming from. :(

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    1. Well, i didnt think....its a habit of mine that!

      I do like i said stand by what i said but i can see that it was perhaps inappropriate to put it in a public forum...he didnt.

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  2. Sorry Tori :) I get where you were coming from and that your intentions weren't nasty.

    ((Hugs))
    Roz

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    1. Thanks, im glad that it wasnt taken that way, perhaps insensitive but then i also think he was.

      but yeah i shall think more carefully in future.

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  3. tori,

    You did not have bad intentions, you were just upset and had to vent.

    Hugs,
    joey

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    1. thanks joey

      Oh yes i needed to vent, i just need to think before i speak..or write in this case!

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  4. Why was it wrong? I'm not getting that part...I'm of the mind that if some random self-proclaimed dom dude messages you via the internet to tell you what you're doing wrong and how he could make you better you have every right to post his words publicly for the amusement of yourself and others. Hubris and suchness are funny subjects and poking a few holes in an overly inflated ego to let a little air out are never a bad thing, to my thinking. Guys who think all women who call themselves submissive should be submissive to them and do what they say give me the giggles.

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    1. I dont think my reaction was wrong, i stand my ground in the points i made, but its that i put my reactions down here, he wrote to me via email and i chose to react on my blog where i exposed him to be made a mockery of....and that was not right.

      But yes it gave me a chuckle that i cannot deny lol

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  5. oh I don't know. You didn't identify him in anyway. This is your blog, you can write about what you want here in my humble opinion, including what you may or may not have received in an email!

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