I said to the bossman today "you know regular orgasms increase brain activity" to which he replied "do a crossword"!!!!!! ok so thats not exactly the response i was looking for although i did laugh. What i do appreciate is that he does have a wicked sense of humour and i think its important to be able to have a laugh with each other, i respect him completley but its good to know i can poke fun at him without it being taken so seriously and vice versa.
We was out in the car and talking about his work, his colleagues and he has a good relationship with most of them, some of them talk to him about problems etc and he was saying how they appreciate his considerate, kind and thoughtful nature...well that just set me off. It started with just a giggle and he was sitting there driving being so serious that the giggles went into uncontrollable laughter..you know when you start laughing so much you cant stop and it actually makes your belly hurt..well i was there, sitting beside him laughing my head off with tears rolling down my face.
It was made worse by the fact that he was just sat there straightfaced, glancing at me as though thinking to himself "whats so bloody funny!" and his serious reply of "well I am" but i couldnt say anything because i just could not stop laughing. The thing is of course i see a side to him no-one else does and naturally he isnt going to be with others like he is with me at times, and he is a nice man in general but considerate and thoughtful are definitley not words i would use to describe him in general.
Im not saying he is incapable of being considerate and thoughtful but he does speak his mind regardless of whether it causes offence, tact is not something he has grasped the concept of. He is very outspoken in his opinions and can be quite cutting if someone rubs him up the wrong way, he in general is a dominant natured man in all aspects of life and can be quite intimidating.....its thinking of this that gave me the fit of giggles.....but then it seems its the women he works with that he has good relationships with and that doesnt surprise me his is a flirt.....no perhaps more accuratley he can put on the charm when he needs to.