Friday, 29 August 2014

Privacy

Thanks for the help, a lot of material to keep me posting for a good while, and im going to get onto them as from Monday, but first something on my mind due to a recent comment has me needing to get this down...coz its bugging me.

On a recent post i received a comment that has since been removed by me, i very rarely will remove a comment, can count on one hand the times i have, but this particular one made me very uncomfortable in that the commentator asked me about something which could if one is resourceful enough reveal my identity as well as my Masters, unlikely i would like to think, but not a risk im willing to take.

It generally is a respected rule of thumb that when one attends clubs, functions or even private interactions with others within this lifestyle that privacy is a must, and many use aliases such as perhaps their online nickname to keep their identity private, lets face it, i doubt many here within blogger use there real name!

Sometimes one does use their real names, my Master and i have at times when in the past we have engaged in the public arena, at those times, as stated above it is expected that all involved privacy is respected.

Now i have blogged about times we have met with others, in these cases i have asked if they minded, which they have not, some i have not blogged about at all, those that i have blogged about their identities have not been revealed and i used aliases, and omitted details.

There are some things i dont blog about, not because of being ashamed or anything but well somethings i like to keep private, and this was the issue as well i had with the comment i removed, and well im sure most of us here dont reveal every teeny weeny details of what they get up to...ok some might, nothing wrong with that, but well i dont.

ok so it wasnt something that was a big deal, what they mentioned particularly, but still its not something i have chosen to blog about here.

ok rant over.








13 comments:

  1. tori,

    I agree with you. I am very careful to keep my identity private. However, some of my good friends know my real identity.

    Hugs,
    joey

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    1. I would like to think im careful, and that others are respectful of peoples privacy.

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  2. I saw the comment and immediately thought...very disrespectful and in poor taste. Sorry someone couldn't see fit to act properly. I think your rant is perfectly understandable!

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    1. thanks, i was pissed off, but hopefully my point has been made.

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  3. I am very careful about my identity for Sir's sake. I am out to friends and a lot of family about being kinky, he is not so I respect his privacy. I'm sorry someone didn't respect your privacy.

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    1. It is difficult, sometimes i wish i could be more out about who i am and what i enjoy, but for various reasons i cannot, i think perhaps if society in general were more accepting and tolerant i would be more inclined to be out.

      but yes it is about respecting that some choose to keep their kink etc private.

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  4. Well I have no idea what you're talking about...this IS my real identity ;)

    hugs
    p

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    1. lol, i was so sure it was as well

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  5. I'm with you. There are just things I will not talk about. And I would never want to say something that would jeopardize our privacy!!

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    1. Thats it, there are things i dont want to talk about, and yeah im careful not to say anything that would risk my privacy so i would expect others not to say anything here that would either.

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  6. Hi Tori, I'm sorry I am bit behind here. I agree, privacy is so important and we don't share everything here.

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. no need to be sorry, i have been playing catch up for a while myself, i think most dont share everything, sometimes its just nice to keep things between oneself and their partner.

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  7. Wow, that is really disturbing. I am so sorry!
    Hugs,
    Fiona

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