Joey recently wrote about a bondage demo he attended http://joeyred51-joeyandfriends.blogspot.co.uk/2013/11/bondage-fun-spank-or-tickle.html?zx=11bf85f96d78e467
I love bondage, whether it be for the purpose of s/m, sex or just because he wants to have me tied up, being restrained just heightens the particular experience of what is going on. It can feel relaxing, restricting,(obviously), harsh, sensual, can make me feel safe, scared, aroused, calm, frenzied....so many different emotions dependent on its purpose.
But what i most love and enjoy about it, is how free it makes me feel when i am bound..which sounds a contradiction of terms....but its the same as how all of this (tpe) enables me to be 'free' but yet i am owned.
I love the helplessness of being defenceless against his ministrations, whether it be pain or indeed pleasure, it serves to remind me that i have no choice in what and how he wishes to use me, i am bound for his pleasure, to use as he pleases.
It helps me to surrender more easily, to get to that place where im just floating, and sometimes im gone so deeply im in a state of mind where i believe i will do and be anything he wants, just so vulnerable to him.
Its a place that belongs to just me and him, nothing and nobody else matters.
What a great post!
ReplyDeleteThankyou Misty
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exactly!
ReplyDeletei love feeling vulnerable to him too!
yes feeling vulnerable is the biggest turn on for me.
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exactly how I view it. Sir didn't bound me often. i wish He would though. It is so much more than submission, it is how safe i feel, the liberation that descends upon me. I get the same sense when He pins my arms next to my body and as He applies pressure to my wrists.
ReplyDeleteAsk him HS, yes safe is how it makes me feel, it just gets me in the headspace really quick.
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I love it also, and like "his slut" above, don't get tied as often as I'd like. Pretty much just when we go to parties, actually, not so much at home.
ReplyDeleteOh you should ask him ancilla, i do think its just that more intimate when done in private.
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So well said tori.
ReplyDeleteThanks for mentioning my post.
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joey
thankyou joey.
DeleteIt was your post that inspired this post so how could i not lol
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Great post Tori, very well said. I love it! I love the vulnerability too, but it's something I still struggle a little with. Not that it happens that often.
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Roz
Thankyou Roz
DeleteYes i do think vulnerability is one of the biggest factors, it just makes it that much easier to let go and just let it happen because there simply is no choice.
Oh you should ask for more lol
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Oh tori, I'm so right there with you. It is insanely freeing to be bound. Perfection!
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fiona
yep...definitley it is freeing, being able to completley let go and put ourselves in someone elses hands is amazing
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