Monday, 23 June 2014

Tomorrow has arrived


I needed to take a step away from blogger, not because of anything negative but really a lack of motivation, inspiration and i didnt want to just write something just to have a post put out..if that makes any sense?

I missed it though, i cant deny that, as sad as it seems i love this little community, hearing what people are up to etc but i think being away has done me good, i needed to get things sorted in life out of blogger so i could come back refreshed.....i was in a rut and spending too much time online, not just on blogger but addicted to those silly facebook games.

So, im working voluntary 3 days a week at a charity shop, and im loving it, working with 2 old ladies who have decided i need fattening up and have taken it upon themselves to bake me lots of goodies, interrogate me about my life "do you have a nice young man, dear?" well, he's a man, 1 out of 3 isnt too bad i suppose!

Have come to some sort of reconciliation with my mother, the fall out with her had/has been draining and i think contributed to bringing me down, i cant say things are as they should be, they are not, but we are talking....its progress.

The bossman, is just so busy, the busiest he has been since we have been together, and yes its had an impact us, its certainly been the longest period of time without any kink at all, rituals still in place which have been keeping me grounded, but i do worry about him, the hours he is putting in, he is just so tired, but wont, cant slow it down at the moment.

So tomorrow (ref.last post) has come, and gosh i have a lot to catch up on, replies to posts, reading etc, and im going to get myself in a routine, tomorrow will be my catch up day here on blogger.....ooh i hope you all have been very boring the last few weeks and i havent missed anything exciting lol

edited to blogroll is only showing the latest post from a blogger, i try clicking show more but nothing happens! have i missed something? or is blogger just being  a bitch to me!


  1. Glad you are back and feeling refreshed. My blog roll is doing the same thing. I researched it and apparently there is an issue with Blogger right now. Happening to lots of people.

    1. thanks lg,

      thank you for the information re. blogger, what a pain in the ass it is!


  2. Blogger's being cranky. I'm having problems with the blogs I follow only last one to post will show on my dashboard.

    Good to see you! Hope the Facebook addiction has gotten manageable, and the withdrawals weren't too painful, lol.

    1. Yes..thats whats been happening to me, although as of writing this it appears to have corrected itself....for the time being.

      I have closed down my facebook account to avoid falling back into old habits lol


  3. me too it's so annoying!! nice to see you back ;) ava x

  4. Great to see you back and recuperated a little. Yes blogger is the bitch at the moment, only one post at at the moment.

  5. Great to see you back Tori:) I think we all need a break from time tontime. Blogger is definitely having a meltdown at the moment. Hope it sorts itself soon!

    So glad you are enjoying the volunteer work. The ladies sound delightful. 1 out of 3 isn't too bad lol, that made me giggle.

    Glad too that you are working things through with your mother. Talking is progress. Hope things calm down a little work wise for the bossman soon.


  6. Tori!!!!!!!

    Happy to see you!
    And online can be an easy web to be caught in.
    The volunteering sounds like fun :)
    Ah...workaholics...any chance of a holiday soon? Any end to that working too hard and not slowing down tunnel in sight?

  7. Yep, blogger was doing that to me too, but it's just fixed itself today.

    I'm so glad to see you back!

  8. Welcome back! Sounds like the charity work is refreshing.

    Blogger was in a mood, but now back to its old self.

  9. Hey there. I'd like to say I missed you…and I did! But I missed being here as well. I can so relate to so many of the things that you're saying. I am glad that you are back and I hope that things for Bossman slow down at some point. Having a volunteer position is fabulous…one out of three…now that was hilarious. And he is NICE…nice for YOU!! :)

    Welcome back.


  10. Apologies for not replying to all of these comments sooner, was not able to, i was back and well then i wasnt.....umm now i am lol