tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post9046317036618945779..comments2023-05-21T15:25:29.957+01:00Comments on Pain's Pleasure: Ignorancetorihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-58846588474768187862012-05-24T22:12:06.504+01:002012-05-24T22:12:06.504+01:00hi
Yes its a difficult and frustrating issue, but...hi<br /><br />Yes its a difficult and frustrating issue, but your quite right people are people and shouldnt be judged on their sexual preferences.<br /><br />toritorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-24006725749949952832012-05-24T13:59:34.828+01:002012-05-24T13:59:34.828+01:00I understand your feelings towards this woman. My ...I understand your feelings towards this woman. My estranged husband never seemed to have an issue with a gay friend of mine until after we separated. He said he didn't want our two daughters exposed by that lifestyle. Needless to say I flew off the handle myself. People are people no matter their sexual orientation. Some are good and some are bad and some are just plain stupid.The little Misseshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10116137247005949416noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-17431925895311512662012-05-20T21:57:05.669+01:002012-05-20T21:57:05.669+01:00hi kitty
I do completley get what your saying, at...hi kitty<br /><br />I do completley get what your saying, at the moment im in no frame of mind to even attempt to work things out, this man is not just my friend but family. We all live in a small community so its not like she doesnt know him, she does reasonably well..this is about him being gay and she not wanting her children left alone with him because of that.<br /><br />I do agree that mostly ignorance is based on fear but sometimes that is no excuse and i cant apply it to this situation...perhaps i will feel differently when i have calmed down but im not holding my breath.<br /><br />It was nice to hear of your experience in London, and thats just basic kindness and manners which should apply to everyone regardless of sexual orientation.<br /><br />tori xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-59795631511913664102012-05-20T21:44:38.928+01:002012-05-20T21:44:38.928+01:00hi ya mouse
Oh i could have gone on and on as i w...hi ya mouse<br /><br />Oh i could have gone on and on as i was and am so enraged, i just cant believe the reaction, i must say its the first time i have encountered it directly....some people just oh heck i think i better stop lol<br /><br />tori xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-13510309291830677552012-05-20T21:39:18.985+01:002012-05-20T21:39:18.985+01:00Hello MsNaydi
I havent heard that saying before b...Hello MsNaydi<br /><br />I havent heard that saying before but its one im not likely to forget, how very true it is.<br /><br />thankyou<br />toritorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-84472825609002623062012-05-20T16:00:53.611+01:002012-05-20T16:00:53.611+01:00Well, as a mother, I wouldn't leave my childre...Well, as a mother, I wouldn't leave my children with anybody that I didn't know personally, whether they were gay or not. It would have nothing to do with their sexual orientation. <br /><br /> Frankly, some of the nicest people I've ever met are gay. I'll never forget the time I was in London attending a play with one of my daughters. I accidentally sat in the wrong seat and these women were really rude to me, practically yelling at me, acting like I was ignorant, etc. I was pregnant (back in those days I was pregnant or nursing a lot, lol). Anyway, I was emotional and an usher was helping me find the correct seats for my daughter and I. I ended up sitting by a gay couple (two men). The man I sat with was THE sweetest man I have ever met. He apologized for the rude behavior of the women that were insulting me and just made me feel so much better. I've NEVER forgotten it! I always have a fond place in my heart for that man and I wish I could meet him again so I could personally thank him for his kindness to a pregnant American woman out of her element in the UK.<br /><br />Love,<br />Kitty<br /><br />P.S. Personally, I wouldn't burn bridges. I would try to talk to her when you're calm and see if you can work things out. Sometimes ignorance is based on fear...I can still remember when people thought you could get Aids just by being around someone that had it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-90088413921594468412012-05-20T01:09:19.095+01:002012-05-20T01:09:19.095+01:00Oh tori....
Omg, mouse could write a book on this...Oh tori....<br /><br />Omg, mouse could write a book on this topic....starting way back to when she was a child and befriended the two men who lived up the street. Fortunately, they were a very positive influence on her life and their influence has remained with her still. It drives mouse absolutely batshit crazy when people act that way...or say miserable crap like hate the sin and love the sinner....<br /><br />Ok...hushing now before mouse really does go too far...<br /><br />Hugs and hugs,<br />mmmousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17837530120535693314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-84599691744806369302012-05-19T14:23:37.187+01:002012-05-19T14:23:37.187+01:00There is a true saying that once you know what som...There is a true saying that once you know what someone believes, then you know who they really are.MsNaydihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15991393424657367644noreply@blogger.com