tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post8115687313055762914..comments2023-05-21T15:25:29.957+01:00Comments on Pain's Pleasure: The backlashtorihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-6498001965256419492012-08-24T16:25:33.326+01:002012-08-24T16:25:33.326+01:00I personally do not like hiding are dynamic. it ha...I personally do not like hiding are dynamic. it has really hit home for us recently because we are picking out collars, one for at home and one for in public. I tend to like the ones that really are obviously collars but being a professional, PTA preisdent and coahing sports really limits our choices. It bothers me even though I think we found something we both like. <br /><br />I thought the books were not written well and were pretty vanilla, I giess that just shows how far we have come. dancingbarezhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05159330409168648147noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-17432158402593787582012-08-24T16:08:29.669+01:002012-08-24T16:08:29.669+01:00Its really a catch 22 situation, most people choos...Its really a catch 22 situation, most people choose to be anonymous because of the lack of understanding of D/s relationships and s/m but also because really its no one elses business what relationships people choose to be in.<br /><br />Blogger for example is anonymous for obvious reasons, on the times bossman and i have attended clubs/private parties then anonymity doesnt come into question because we are with likeminded people..they know who we are.<br /><br />The issue really is this general lack of understanding of ttwd and s/m in general and how people are quick to make assumptions on something they know nothing about..reading 50 shades doesnt give an accurate account so to condem people on that is ludicrous...thats the point i was trying to make.torihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-61228290274573147492012-08-24T15:09:04.591+01:002012-08-24T15:09:04.591+01:00I actually can see that - but it is only a set bac...I actually can see that - but it is only a set back if the conversation gets turned without input. The problem is that we are all still anonymous - even to each other. I am not suggesting changing that, I am just saying if you can't be in the open then well, it won't pass some people's sniff test. It has bothered me, this anonymous business, but I get why it's important.<br /><br />Harder to argue effectively though when you won't show your face.Kitty the Submissive Wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00185859722963938064noreply@blogger.com