tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post8040446254821696815..comments2023-05-21T15:25:29.957+01:00Comments on Pain's Pleasure: Not on the weekendtorihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-49815715341623324182012-10-21T20:04:26.307+01:002012-10-21T20:04:26.307+01:00Oh my mum is the queen of re-invention lol, she si...Oh my mum is the queen of re-invention lol, she sits in her ivory tower looking down and it pisses me off, i love her but i cant say i like her!<br /><br />lol i wouldnt say your not nice, not that i have picked up on, i think everyone is capable of being not nice no matter how nice we might be...if that makes sense!<br /><br />families as supportive as they can be, can also be complicated.<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-85862399076302308242012-10-21T20:01:50.383+01:002012-10-21T20:01:50.383+01:00Ahh yes they are and im finding they got more comp...Ahh yes they are and im finding they got more complicated the older im getting. I do love the way you have described the scars, thats given me pause for thought...thankyou.<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-10837566968800395822012-10-21T20:00:36.873+01:002012-10-21T20:00:36.873+01:00thanks blossom, i hope so, i guess time will tell....thanks blossom, i hope so, i guess time will tell.<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-62281019241600460812012-10-21T20:00:14.058+01:002012-10-21T20:00:14.058+01:00hello SmilingBelle
Thankyou, it does take time an...hello SmilingBelle<br /><br />Thankyou, it does take time and its slow progress, and im not placing all the blame at her feet i know there have been things i have done and said that have contributed to the distance between us.<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-49388405106380195092012-10-21T19:58:14.869+01:002012-10-21T19:58:14.869+01:00Thannk joey, im hoping its possible, i think we bo...Thannk joey, im hoping its possible, i think we both need it.<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-63733368995022611352012-10-21T07:06:09.423+01:002012-10-21T07:06:09.423+01:00Amazing how easy people forget that unless they ar...Amazing how easy people forget that unless they are in the situation themselves they don't know exactly what choices they would make. We all watch each other and we all have opinions. Some of us are just nicer than others. (I am not one of the nice ones really.)<br /><br />I am dealing with a mother thing this week of a completely different magnitude, and I so appreciated this.Kitty the Submissive Wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00185859722963938064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-63317690942976020972012-10-21T04:20:44.199+01:002012-10-21T04:20:44.199+01:00Oh tori...family relationships are so hard and so ...Oh tori...family relationships are so hard and so complicated. You are amazing to want and work on a relationship. You have great perspective of what happened to you. Sometimes it's scars that will always remain, but that we have to call a scar and wear it in plain view but choose to live our lives incorporating that scar into who we are. Good luck!SirQsmlbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17862547894051224264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-59283688532773227612012-10-21T00:10:22.999+01:002012-10-21T00:10:22.999+01:00hugs tori...hopefully your relationship with your ...hugs tori...hopefully your relationship with your mum will get better.<br /><br />blossom xblossomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18233213834265183615noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-3701631059131943082012-10-20T18:41:47.337+01:002012-10-20T18:41:47.337+01:00(((((((((((((Tori))))))))))))) Hugs to you, Tori. ...(((((((((((((Tori))))))))))))) Hugs to you, Tori. I don't really have any great advice.....all I can say is just take one day and one moment at a time and try to build on your relationship from the present time and go forward. That is what Mr. B and his mama did. They didn't speak for 15 years and these years were when he was from ages 10-25. It was hard to let some of that go and forgive, but they did manage after time and a lot of clearing the air to re-build their relationship. Maybe that will give you some hope....I hope it does. <br /><br />Hugs again to you! I know this can be so hard....I watched Mr. B struggle with it over the years. <br /><br />BelleSmilingBellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00614110304972793653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-52762872043243552572012-10-20T18:17:12.602+01:002012-10-20T18:17:12.602+01:00I cannot give you advice, I can only offer a hug a...I cannot give you advice, I can only offer a hug and a wish that you can build a relationship.<br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com