tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post7094537876259152935..comments2023-05-21T15:25:29.957+01:00Comments on Pain's Pleasure: Dont grow up too soontorihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-5228922109010550662012-09-03T10:09:35.505+01:002012-09-03T10:09:35.505+01:00oh Mr AP i would love for my son to still be inter...oh Mr AP i would love for my son to still be interested in those things..let them be a child for as long as possible, however i do understand your concerns but it will hit him at one point and then its a whole different level of worry lol<br /><br />Thankyou, its difficult sometimes to know if im doing the right thing but i think honesty is the only way to go in giving them information.<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-68614941834671024442012-09-03T10:07:25.127+01:002012-09-03T10:07:25.127+01:00I would be inclined to agree with her as well but ...I would be inclined to agree with her as well but its not the right way and i would rather she had the facts.torihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-8699999656225082382012-09-03T00:43:20.113+01:002012-09-03T00:43:20.113+01:00I've got the opposite worry; Genius Child is 1...I've got the opposite worry; Genius Child is 15 and shows more interest in Pokemon and Yu-Gi-Oh than he does anything sexual. When I was 15 my hormones were raging, I was sneaking Penthouse into my room, masturbating with every shower, and trying constantly to get into my girlfriend's pants. Mrs. AP was having sex regularly at 15. Having a son who shows no interest in it at that age, while a blessing, still concerns us.<br /><br />I say again, you're a good mum. You take the same approach Mrs. AP and I do for delivering information to our children. Keep up the good work!<br /><br />Stay SINful<br />Mr. APAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-70927913784034555062012-09-02T04:56:33.167+01:002012-09-02T04:56:33.167+01:00I agree with your daughter, it's better in the...I agree with your daughter, it's better in the mouth! Hee!:) But thankfully that is NOT how babies are made, or I'd be left with no sex life at all.t1klishhttp://t1klish.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-38279783984719439992012-09-01T22:33:43.133+01:002012-09-01T22:33:43.133+01:00thank blossom, its so difficult isnt it knowing if...thank blossom, its so difficult isnt it knowing if your doing the right thing? all the parent handbooks in the world as well intended as they might be dont prepare you for the reality!<br /><br />xxtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-30452352908620749622012-09-01T22:32:28.467+01:002012-09-01T22:32:28.467+01:00Thanks, im pretty confident i handled it well, i w...Thanks, im pretty confident i handled it well, i was shocked myself but then i have always been open with them about sex which i think stems from being raised in an environment where it was a dirty word.<br /><br />He found it embarassing, we both did to an extent but i guess it made me pleased he has the maturity to be able to come and talk to me.<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-37615749418912177212012-09-01T22:29:25.305+01:002012-09-01T22:29:25.305+01:00With reference to the games, my comment was me ref...With reference to the games, my comment was me reflecting that this time last year his main concern was reaching targets on his PS3 etc and thats what i think is normal for 15yr old boys, i cant imagine grown men would consider that a priority loltorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-5286070957050466852012-09-01T22:23:54.415+01:002012-09-01T22:23:54.415+01:00hi kitty
Yes i did buy them i felt it was the res...hi kitty<br /><br />Yes i did buy them i felt it was the responsible thing to do, if they are going to go through with it i wanted to make sure they had protection rather than risk not using any because they were too embarrassed to buy condoms...which i did point out to my son if your mature enough to have sex then you should be mature enough to buy them!<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-60916702525104021692012-09-01T22:22:19.102+01:002012-09-01T22:22:19.102+01:00oh Joolz that is so true, when their babies its di...oh Joolz that is so true, when their babies its difficult but at least you know where they are and what they are up too....the older they get the less control over them you have.<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-80149738261215738672012-09-01T22:20:58.236+01:002012-09-01T22:20:58.236+01:00Good for you for explaining though so many parents...Good for you for explaining though so many parents avoid the subject because they believe the children are too young and i think thats a huge mistake..but i think thats probably because of my own personal experiences with my mum talking as sex just wasnt talked about when i was growing up!<br /><br />I do think 15 years old is too young but then it seems to be the norm these days.<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-80252034320800341262012-09-01T22:17:59.863+01:002012-09-01T22:17:59.863+01:00hi Kat
I think its just that children are exposed...hi Kat<br /><br />I think its just that children are exposed to so much these days its hard to monitor what is going on, out of it all im just glad he could come to me.<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-59071729544965848782012-09-01T20:45:30.439+01:002012-09-01T20:45:30.439+01:00raising kids is the scariest job in the world...al...raising kids is the scariest job in the world...always looking out for them, trying to steer them in the right direction and being as honest with them as best you can. when my boys first went off on a holiday with their friends i bought them condoms and packed them in their case...smiles...told them not to take any chances. like your son my boys felt and still do feel comfortable in talking to me about anything which i think is a wonderful thing especially in this day and age...smiles<br /><br />well done you<br /><br />blossom xblossomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18233213834265183615noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-89169861324863380172012-09-01T20:26:31.688+01:002012-09-01T20:26:31.688+01:00uh huh. i agree. you guys do realise that often in...uh huh. i agree. you guys do realise that often in my posts i mention BIKSS turning on the laptop (mine) to do whatever he does on his online game where he has this WHOLE other life... right?<br /><br />games -and the continued playing of them, are NOT an indication of ANYTHING in boys.Fondleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03538688586112598309noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-28826039830633745822012-09-01T20:24:46.964+01:002012-09-01T20:24:46.964+01:00wow. i think you did well. i always say - they'...wow. i think you did well. i always say - they're gonna do it whether you say NO or not. better equip them with the right information and guidance. rather than shutting them down and pretending you're shocked they went ahead and did it anyway. <br /><br />and yes, it's good that he came and talked to you about condoms. i don't know many 15 yr olds who would discuss this with their mums. that makes you awesome in my books!<br /><br />well done.Fondleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03538688586112598309noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-74924726862899014352012-09-01T17:04:20.729+01:002012-09-01T17:04:20.729+01:00I was going to say that the playing on the games t...I was going to say that the playing on the games thing is no indication of age in boys these days.<br /><br />Did you buy the condoms? I think you have to, right? But I don't know and I was curious.<br /><br />This is a good post today.Kitty the Submissive Wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00185859722963938064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-70217466572776857342012-09-01T07:44:21.395+01:002012-09-01T07:44:21.395+01:00The thing with being a parent is that at the begin...The thing with being a parent is that at the beginning you think the hardest time will be when they are babies. It takes practically no time at all to realise that the real challenges start from about the time they go to school. If your children come to you with their thoughts and fears and to ask you to buy condoms then you are making a pretty good job at parenting. You may not like what he plans to do, but at least you are not in for any nasty surprises. My son is 21 and still spends hours playing on his X box!juliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14347955569618276489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-32918853797523116762012-09-01T05:18:41.472+01:002012-09-01T05:18:41.472+01:00Oh my! I think it's so great that your son ca...Oh my! I think it's so great that your son came to you to talk about it! I explained to my daughter the way things work last month when my husband got a vasectomy, because she started asking very astute questions about it (she's only 7). I'm not sure how much of it she got, but I agree with you-- answering their questions honestly is the only way to go! And I so sympathize with you crying over your 15 year old being sex ready!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04842027321593278610noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-9255941499288437332012-09-01T04:32:18.529+01:002012-09-01T04:32:18.529+01:00I agree. I swear I am terrified of what my childr...I agree. I swear I am terrified of what my children will say or do next. I think it's wonderful that your son talked to you about what he was thinking though. It must have been really hard for him at 15!Kathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12084246943321375209noreply@blogger.com