tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post6942756126125367990..comments2023-05-21T15:25:29.957+01:00Comments on Pain's Pleasure: The buck stops heretorihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-37532761989621535612012-04-24T20:22:52.123+01:002012-04-24T20:22:52.123+01:00hi ya kitty
i agree i do feel very secure knowing...hi ya kitty<br /><br />i agree i do feel very secure knowing that he is in control, its comforting and its safe.<br /><br />tori xxtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-40106911211144962682012-04-24T20:21:54.652+01:002012-04-24T20:21:54.652+01:00hi dancingbarez
Yes dependencey on them is a sign...hi dancingbarez<br /><br />Yes dependencey on them is a sign of power but as that famous quote goes...with power comes great responsibility....and there is that fine line of not letting the power go to their heads.<br /><br />tori xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-12806816436982476942012-04-24T20:19:23.182+01:002012-04-24T20:19:23.182+01:00hi ya mouse
i have fleetingly thought that whats ...hi ya mouse<br /><br />i have fleetingly thought that whats expected in todays society is a contributing factor to why its such a struggle.<br /><br />I suppose if its looked at in that way then it wouldnt be much of a struggle for dominants because its acceptable to be assertive....oh something else to ponder lol<br /><br />tori xxtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-90468243915473856202012-04-24T17:05:38.760+01:002012-04-24T17:05:38.760+01:00Just recently I had a conversation with Daddy that...Just recently I had a conversation with Daddy that went like this...<br /><br />me~"Daddy, do you like controlling me?"<br /><br />Daddy~after laughing good naturedly, clearly pleased about the thought, "I love to control you. You're not a burden, not at all."<br /><br />When Daddy said that I felt so loved and cared for, secure. It made me so happy that he values my submission to him.<br /><br />Love,<br />KittyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-10789689338354531122012-04-23T18:03:34.106+01:002012-04-23T18:03:34.106+01:00I agree with mouse. My Master is naturally control...I agree with mouse. My Master is naturally controlling all the time and actually chuckles when I ponder out loud if I am putting too much burden on him. <br /><br />I think is makes sense for Dominants to like our dependence on the control, it is a true sign of power.dancingbarezhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05159330409168648147noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-80161607068008688482012-04-23T15:11:48.757+01:002012-04-23T15:11:48.757+01:00You/re right but the strong Dom types (by strong m...You/re right but the strong Dom types (by strong mouse means the kinds that are naturally controlling all the time) don't seem to mind at all the burden they shoulder....<br /><br />In fact mouse would say it's a not burden to them most of the time. They're probably grateful...because to some degree or another they're happiest when they are in control. When things just run smoothly. Of course, when things do go wrong they need help like anyone else does...but hopefully those times are short-lived. <br /><br />Our struggles, it seems are inherent to what we are expected today by society. We're not expected to submit in anything...And maybe that's where our inner conflicts are started...<br /><br />It does seem tho, we struggle more with submission than they do with their dominance. <br /><br />Hugs,<br />mousemousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17837530120535693314noreply@blogger.com