tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post6504998374848249602..comments2023-05-21T15:25:29.957+01:00Comments on Pain's Pleasure: Abortion should be a choice and right for any women that chooses it...torihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comBlogger30125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-72362732435291825322012-08-07T21:23:51.902+01:002012-08-07T21:23:51.902+01:00Thanks Dee,
Its a sensative subject but yes its a...Thanks Dee,<br /><br />Its a sensative subject but yes its about choice and for a lot of women its the right choice.<br /><br />xxtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-29026126059787116032012-08-07T16:54:27.070+01:002012-08-07T16:54:27.070+01:00Firstly, I'd like to say that 'anon's&...Firstly, I'd like to say that 'anon's' comments are truly disgusting. I'm utterly appalled. <br />I too agree with your post tori, it's about choice and one that the majority of people do not obviously take lightly or do on a whim. I hope your niece gets all the support she needs. <br /><br />Dee xDeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04850836843301245812noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-14662534269759914512012-08-05T12:23:26.200+01:002012-08-05T12:23:26.200+01:00Thankyou FD, its sad but unfortunatley people do j...Thankyou FD, its sad but unfortunatley people do judge.<br /><br />Adoption was mentioned but she was adamantly against that so i see that as a positive step, i think and the health worker that is on her case feels the same that this post natal depression as well as a lot of inner turmoil.<br /><br />Its going to take time and a lot of support i think.<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-35831619731145361872012-08-05T06:21:02.719+01:002012-08-05T06:21:02.719+01:00Gloria Steinem once quoted somebody as saying if m...Gloria Steinem once quoted somebody as saying if men could have children, abortion would be a sacrament. It's a no brainer that it is a woman's choice and boggles my mind that some people judge such an intimate decision by a woman.<br />Also, wondering if it would be feasible for your niece to put the baby up for adoption. Maybe an open adoption where she could be like an aunt. Just a thought.<br />And feel free to delete those Anon comments.<br /><br />FDFlorida Domhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08785387941624829985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-24603486370386390352012-08-04T21:47:36.746+01:002012-08-04T21:47:36.746+01:00I do think though for some woman that choice is re...I do think though for some woman that choice is removed perhaps more so in different cultures and religons, and for some woman its pressure from other factors..partner, family etc.<br /><br />I didnt realise about the hospitals but i have heard of how terrible botched abortions can be and the woman that have had this happen to them through desperation.torihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-63142377819917707702012-08-04T21:43:57.505+01:002012-08-04T21:43:57.505+01:00Thankyou aisha, my neice is struggling but is gett...Thankyou aisha, my neice is struggling but is getting a lot of support so hopefully it will all work out eventually..but its not been easy.<br /><br />I have sent you email.<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-24462168555318115712012-08-04T21:42:38.782+01:002012-08-04T21:42:38.782+01:00Thanks for your comment William its nice to get a ...Thanks for your comment William its nice to get a mans perspective. Yes i agree i do think the father has a right to express his feelings about it but yes ultimatley its the womans decision, its a tricky situation and circumstances may differ from one woman to another.<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-20214928272494225132012-08-04T21:22:16.791+01:002012-08-04T21:22:16.791+01:00P.S. It's always been a choice, it just hasn&...P.S. It's always been a choice, it just hasn't always been legal and safe. Most people don't realize that there used to be whole sections of the hospital for women with botched efforts at abortion.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-64713910414332152442012-08-04T21:20:39.174+01:002012-08-04T21:20:39.174+01:00Tori,
This is a wonderful post, and i appreciate ...Tori,<br /><br />This is a wonderful post, and i appreciate you writing it. I'm kind of impressed with your niece's openness in how she feels about it now.<br /><br />i have a particular interest in this post - if you'd feel comfortable emailing me at aisha.hisservant@gmail.com, i'd like to talk to you about it. If not, of course that's perfectly ok too.<br /><br />Thanks! <br /><br />aishaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-33357645562701581012012-08-04T21:02:30.641+01:002012-08-04T21:02:30.641+01:00As a man, I believe the man involved has the right...As a man, I believe the man involved has the right to express his feelings about it, but in the end it is the woman's final decision. Fortunately I never had to make that decision, but a female friend did and chose to get one. I never judged her for it.<br /><br />WilliamWilliamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01978679146746236376noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-46793064874826932922012-08-04T11:55:24.259+01:002012-08-04T11:55:24.259+01:00Thats the point i was trying to make FA but have f...Thats the point i was trying to make FA but have failed at, it is choice and everyones choice should be respected, opinions will differ it is a sensitive subject but it is primarily about choice more than anything else.<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-32588579848844517702012-08-04T11:53:23.209+01:002012-08-04T11:53:23.209+01:00hi FA, Joolz
yep you are both right, and hence wh...hi FA, Joolz<br /><br />yep you are both right, and hence why i have chosen to now moderate the comments as it was getting personal, and i wont be publishing anon's further comments..they are abusive and i wanted to avoid that.<br /><br />I should really know better.<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-37938911571468370832012-08-03T22:25:01.807+01:002012-08-03T22:25:01.807+01:00Well said FA, what we as women need to promote is ...Well said FA, what we as women need to promote is our individual right to believe and to CHOOSE what is right for us as individuals. Then not to inflict our individual beliefs on others.juliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14347955569618276489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-36666771394446235152012-08-03T22:21:24.676+01:002012-08-03T22:21:24.676+01:00Completely agree FA. It is only too easy to make a...Completely agree FA. It is only too easy to make a sweeping statement about this very personal subject.<br /><br />Personally I would never judge the impact being pregnant when you haven't planned to be so has on a woman of whatever age. It never happened to me, but if it had I know that the last thing I would have wanted was to feel that I had been pressured into having a child I didn't feel I could give the best to. Ignore the anonymous trolls!juliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14347955569618276489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-47132317269619947772012-08-03T17:45:25.517+01:002012-08-03T17:45:25.517+01:00oh tori, don't engage. I find that if people w...oh tori, don't engage. I find that if people want to say something but won't even give a FAKE name on BLOGGER than they aren't worthy of any conversation. besides, what we want is discussion. not accusations. *hugs*Fondleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03538688586112598309noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-89212104761814395022012-08-03T17:43:46.753+01:002012-08-03T17:43:46.753+01:00I'm catholic so i'm pro-life. however havi...I'm catholic so i'm pro-life. however having said that, that's MY choice. I'm also PRO choice. I'm not a saint. And I don't expect anyone else to live up to OTHER people's idea of what's right and what's wrong either. <br /><br />Good post. Strong emotions here. And i wish more people would stand up for CHOICE.Fondleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03538688586112598309noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-65193829334253285032012-08-03T08:58:52.523+01:002012-08-03T08:58:52.523+01:00It is a strong topic blossom but i believe an impo...It is a strong topic blossom but i believe an important one, so many ignorant people out there ready to condem but as you said so many reasons and different circumstances.<br /><br />xxtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-70741139545595453052012-08-03T08:57:37.098+01:002012-08-03T08:57:37.098+01:00You know very well i mean blogger name but then ig...You know very well i mean blogger name but then ignorance seems to be something you excel in.torihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-61240836871268082792012-08-03T01:53:10.745+01:002012-08-03T01:53:10.745+01:00Hiding behind being anonymous? Let me see you pst ...Hiding behind being anonymous? Let me see you pst your real name and email, or are you a pot calling a kettle black?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-50857023409057446152012-08-02T20:24:57.901+01:002012-08-02T20:24:57.901+01:00a strong topic tori, but i agree with you its the ...a strong topic tori, but i agree with you its the womans choice as there can be so many reasons as to why she got pregnant in the first instance.<br /><br />blossom xblossomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18233213834265183615noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-1440837536937689912012-08-02T17:44:09.826+01:002012-08-02T17:44:09.826+01:00Oh be serious! i take precautions to ensure unwant...Oh be serious! i take precautions to ensure unwanted pregnancy, i do choose to have sex because i enjoy it and dont see it as just being for procreation.<br /><br />This is not about taking a life, for many women that choose abortion its to preserve the life they already have and other lives they my be responsible for ie other children. You may consider this selfish but i think its more selfish to bring a child into a life where it is not wanted and the circumstances are not good.<br /><br />How about coming out from hiding behind anonymous?torihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-20192618597536559202012-08-02T14:41:24.505+01:002012-08-02T14:41:24.505+01:00If you don't want a child, then don't do t...If you don't want a child, then don't do the one thing that causes pregnancy. You have the right to decide if you will have sex or not. You do NOT have the right to take a life.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-90268791398678168432012-08-02T07:48:01.603+01:002012-08-02T07:48:01.603+01:00You know anon when i went to bed last night after ...You know anon when i went to bed last night after posting this i fully expected to wake up this morning and find a few negative comments so im surprised but pleased to see only one.<br /><br />It is my right as a women to decide whether i want a child or not, living and dying has no relevance here at all.torihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-64563750671683820742012-08-02T07:44:21.076+01:002012-08-02T07:44:21.076+01:00Thankyou faerie, i realise its a controversial top...Thankyou faerie, i realise its a controversial topic but i think its one thats important. If men could have children it would certainly cause a drop in population! lol<br /><br />xxtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-8509868273402834442012-08-02T07:43:13.400+01:002012-08-02T07:43:13.400+01:00hi mouse
It is sad that there are women all over ...hi mouse<br /><br />It is sad that there are women all over the world are pressured to keep children they do not want and i really dont see that much progress has been made.<br /><br />This is about womens rights, regardless of their age or religon come to that its a subject i feel very strongly about..so i wont rant on.<br /><br />Im worried about my niece its really a messy situation, and i feel sad that your friend isnt getting the support from her family when she needs it most.<br /><br />xxtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.com