tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post5882935535396034601..comments2023-05-21T15:25:29.957+01:00Comments on Pain's Pleasure: Its great at the bottomtorihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-68276453119885046912014-01-27T22:24:33.919+00:002014-01-27T22:24:33.919+00:00Yes it does, and i think thats one of the few reas...Yes it does, and i think thats one of the few reasons i could do it if i had to, because it pleased him....but it would have to be dominating someone else i just couldnt not with him...not that he would entertain that idea anyway lol<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-6774871538684520562014-01-27T02:16:18.128+00:002014-01-27T02:16:18.128+00:00I know, the only way I think I could would be to t...I know, the only way I think I could would be to turn them on (my own need to please!) not because it turned me on to be dominant. Does that make sense?Renee Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01414212384941364401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-49767497085081596802014-01-26T23:09:57.630+00:002014-01-26T23:09:57.630+00:00I think your either that way inclined or not, of c...I think your either that way inclined or not, of course some can be both and thats great but for me....at the bottom is just fine.<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-19791550680145306392014-01-26T23:08:59.208+00:002014-01-26T23:08:59.208+00:00Yes decision making is my downfall, and being resp...Yes decision making is my downfall, and being responsible for making them for others would be just too much for me.<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-82391767923694369892014-01-26T23:07:55.188+00:002014-01-26T23:07:55.188+00:00Yes i definitley get what you mean about having th...Yes i definitley get what you mean about having that different mindset at work, its about being adaptable to the environment i think.<br /><br />lol i couldnt be a nurse simply coz i cant stand the sight of other peoples blood!<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-56673537498087415242014-01-26T23:06:36.027+00:002014-01-26T23:06:36.027+00:00Yes arrogance is a huge turn on for me also....alt...Yes arrogance is a huge turn on for me also....although im not brave enough to challenge lol<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-56806178936597612392014-01-26T23:05:23.955+00:002014-01-26T23:05:23.955+00:00I think being submissive, submitting to another do...I think being submissive, submitting to another does require strength, a strong sense of self worth, and yes i do think one can have dominant traits.....but im so with you on that i would rather go vanilla than be a Domme.<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-546769907235599992014-01-26T23:02:23.672+00:002014-01-26T23:02:23.672+00:00lmao
I think dreaming/leaving this to fantasy is ...lmao<br /><br />I think dreaming/leaving this to fantasy is the best thing!<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-41250543892874100012014-01-26T23:01:42.364+00:002014-01-26T23:01:42.364+00:00I can understand what you mean about the balance, ...I can understand what you mean about the balance, and for sure its possible, after all if it wasnt there wouldnt be switches lol <br /><br />I just know its not for me, would i try it, dominating that is....umm i would if i had to but definitley not with Master.<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-60354152277804458692014-01-26T22:59:18.374+00:002014-01-26T22:59:18.374+00:00I didnt mind the being in charge at work, i had to...I didnt mind the being in charge at work, i had to be responsible because of the nature of my job, switching off from that at times i did find difficult.<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-68213891109713174242014-01-26T22:58:03.836+00:002014-01-26T22:58:03.836+00:00Yes i think there is a lot of wisdom in picking on...Yes i think there is a lot of wisdom in picking ones battles carefully...somethings just are not worth kicking up a fuss about.<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-17229769904866413832014-01-26T22:57:07.726+00:002014-01-26T22:57:07.726+00:00oooh now as tempting as that sounds...um i think i...oooh now as tempting as that sounds...um i think i will pass lol<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-75909642914026324982014-01-24T12:44:13.072+00:002014-01-24T12:44:13.072+00:00I completely agree, and relate to all the reasons ...I completely agree, and relate to all the reasons why you couldn't Top, I'm the same!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-11847772071002676942014-01-24T10:00:33.568+00:002014-01-24T10:00:33.568+00:00I couldn't pull it off either Tori. I am hope...I couldn't pull it off either Tori. I am hopeless at making decisions and have always tended to defer to the decisions of others, except, as you say, when it comes to the 'important' decisions.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-12781778444049610172014-01-24T09:17:23.173+00:002014-01-24T09:17:23.173+00:00The more responsibility I'm given the more ind...The more responsibility I'm given the more indecisive I get, except at work, somehow that gets a different mindset. <br />I wanted to be a nurse as a kid, but then I realise I could stand seeing people in pain. No hope for me as a Top, I would feel guilty after the first smack :)<br />hugs<br />DFDelFontehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02877826634987802545noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-54832261070228183582014-01-24T02:34:38.272+00:002014-01-24T02:34:38.272+00:00I love when Sir gets arrogant. It turns me on more...I love when Sir gets arrogant. It turns me on more. At times, I want to challenge it just to see how far I can push it. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-42739534666194617752014-01-24T01:08:25.014+00:002014-01-24T01:08:25.014+00:00I am an independant woman, I am strong & maybe...I am an independant woman, I am strong & maybe dominant where I have to be BUT I would go back to vanilla before I would ever consider becoming a Domme. Sure I like to tease and can be very sassy but to be the one in charge of a D/s .. no thank you. That's been one of the best discoveries I have found on my journey .. the ability to give up control in my submission. geekie kittiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12922573531124805279noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-17094310770027683822014-01-23T21:39:30.091+00:002014-01-23T21:39:30.091+00:00Lol. I might contemplate slapping Master if I coul...Lol. I might contemplate slapping Master if I could run faster than him, unfortunately at some point I would have to come home and I do like my hand so, yeah, probably best to just dream about that ;) <br />Mistyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07931554793023459482noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-75678084222291585382014-01-23T20:12:30.811+00:002014-01-23T20:12:30.811+00:00i have no problem being in charge (i'm a switc...i have no problem being in charge (i'm a switch after all), but if I have to do it all, all the time, it gets too much and all the joy of anything goes out of - balance in all things, basically.<br /><br />Submitting - to someone I like and trust - is a fabulous exercise, especially when I've become stressed and my 'in chargeness' is sliding into control freakery. Its an amazing relaxing and freeing process..<br /><br />On the other hand, dominating someone - I love and trust - is amazing too, especially that they trust me in that way...<br /><br />The most important/freeing thing I guess is to figure out what works for you - submission, dominating or both - much less heart ache then, for sure<br /><br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03012486777344302375noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-37119663256854766442014-01-23T19:09:47.143+00:002014-01-23T19:09:47.143+00:00I would make a shit dominant too. I have actually ...I would make a shit dominant too. I have actually realized this mostly through my work. I am the person in charge and hate it. Spent years trying to get here and now I realize I don't want to be in charge and make all the decisions, little girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17239564937960323449noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-82483536271193368992014-01-23T15:51:28.902+00:002014-01-23T15:51:28.902+00:00I run my life, except when Master visits, I usuall...I run my life, except when Master visits, I usually let him make the decisions, because, well, I have to pick my battles. It's not worth a scene over which toilet paper I should get. If he's nice enough to take me to the supermarket and buy me groceries, he can buy me any kind of toilet paper he thinks is the better deal. Even if he's wrong. Hee.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-29069454522280859312014-01-23T15:43:48.313+00:002014-01-23T15:43:48.313+00:00oh yes, the urge to whack back...Fight it! I am al...oh yes, the urge to whack back...Fight it! I am also told that shin kicking is absolutely under all circumstances, no matter what, completely and totally, unacceptable. You know, just in case you thought you might want to try something new...Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.com