tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post4726051329347481342..comments2023-05-21T15:25:29.957+01:00Comments on Pain's Pleasure: Changestorihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-61327252800534068192015-06-18T11:06:28.774+01:002015-06-18T11:06:28.774+01:00I didnt want to but it was a case of having to, im...I didnt want to but it was a case of having to, im just so pleased that they really handled it well, as it was a new situation for them.<br /><br />It is hard, i hope yours is manageable in some form, i think what is perhaps difficult is adjusting that one is stuck with a particular condition and in some cases it can only get worse.<br /><br />Thank you for the link, i shall go join.<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-5273256720910315502015-06-18T04:08:19.240+01:002015-06-18T04:08:19.240+01:00I think it was great you talked to your doctors. I...I think it was great you talked to your doctors. I am sorry you are having to go through these difficult adjustments. I don't have diabetes, but chronic pain due to degenerative disc disorder and also pinched nerves in my back and I know how hard it is to deal with life changing illness. <br /><br />Also just to throw this out there for another form of support...there is a group on FetLife...https://fetlife.com/groups/5379 danaehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04272665842538045248noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-91136690035548925442015-06-18T00:47:02.929+01:002015-06-18T00:47:02.929+01:00yeah crappy about sums it up lol
It was hard, i w...yeah crappy about sums it up lol<br /><br />It was hard, i was dreading it, hence why i had put it off for so long which was stupid really considering its an important issue.<br /><br />Yeah we have talked about it, he is more cautious than i am, i just dont like change and missing certain things that i really enjoy but at the end of the day my health is more important than kink.<br /><br />oh he will still get his kicks one way or the other lol<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-79095605488194653792015-06-18T00:44:24.542+01:002015-06-18T00:44:24.542+01:00hi ya Roz
Im sorry to, a little upset but it answ...hi ya Roz<br /><br />Im sorry to, a little upset but it answered a lot of questions and concerns we had, i should have gone a lot sooner than i did, but well its done and the doctors were brilliant.<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-19629110122946145082015-06-18T00:43:05.981+01:002015-06-18T00:43:05.981+01:00Yes, although some of it is bothering me, its bett...Yes, although some of it is bothering me, its better to be fully aware of the risks, its going to mean change, adjustments but im trying to focus on the positives <br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-36282236500000651622015-06-18T00:41:58.108+01:002015-06-18T00:41:58.108+01:00thanks blossom
Yes it is better to be safe than s...thanks blossom<br /><br />Yes it is better to be safe than sorry, and we will just have to be more vigilant, and careful, something are off the table permenantly which is upsetting me but well just have to accept it.<br /><br />oh their expressions in moments was funny lol<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-59514643228621472862015-06-18T00:29:42.444+01:002015-06-18T00:29:42.444+01:00Im glad i did, should have done it months ago, Mas...Im glad i did, should have done it months ago, Master has been great, but then i didnt expect any different, my health is more important than any kink.<br /><br />I really do suggest seeking advice especially in regards to medical problems..she says after putting it off longer than i should have lol<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-89951979449264044722015-06-18T00:27:52.900+01:002015-06-18T00:27:52.900+01:00Yes, i really have to take more control of it, im ...Yes, i really have to take more control of it, im better than i have been.<br /><br />Oh....there are always other ways lol<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-14927304894007633082015-06-18T00:26:51.993+01:002015-06-18T00:26:51.993+01:00yes it is, and just so many things we have to be m...yes it is, and just so many things we have to be more aware of, honestly im struggling with how its going to change things, but im focusing on exploring new avenues.<br /><br />lol i didnt even bring up piss play!<br /><br />thank you<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-29530118142710540242015-06-18T00:25:33.695+01:002015-06-18T00:25:33.695+01:00thanks Bleuame,
Im really trying to focus on the ...thanks Bleuame,<br /><br />Im really trying to focus on the positives, that now we are fully aware of the increase in risks (i should have gone doctors a long time ago!) we can adapt accordingly.<br /><br />Humiliation..oh yes, definitely that is something im keen to explore more of..so im looking it as opening new doors to things we havent explored as of yet.<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-71638754762250392882015-06-18T00:22:54.760+01:002015-06-18T00:22:54.760+01:00oh DF i was so dreading it, i mumbled a lot lol
Y...oh DF i was so dreading it, i mumbled a lot lol<br /><br />Yes, there is much more that we can do that we enjoy, at the end of the day my health is more important that taking risks, so im trying to be positive and think of possible new avenues to explore!<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-28252793727584848382015-06-18T00:21:08.453+01:002015-06-18T00:21:08.453+01:00I should have gone a lot sooner, but i just kept p...I should have gone a lot sooner, but i just kept putting it off, but im glad i did, to get more information, it was a new situation for them lol<br /><br />Yeah he will, it will be adjustment though.<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-15221175539458137052015-06-18T00:19:32.264+01:002015-06-18T00:19:32.264+01:00Thanks FD
Im much more in control of it than i ha...Thanks FD<br /><br />Im much more in control of it than i have been, so im feeling more positive. i was dreading discussing the situation with the doctors but i have to say they were amazing.<br /><br />thanks<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-49412528060938853852015-06-17T15:02:12.041+01:002015-06-17T15:02:12.041+01:00Aww, crappy.
At least they didn't totally frea...Aww, crappy.<br />At least they didn't totally freak out on you! Talking to doctors about these kinds of things is super hard (okay, so I've never actually done it, but the thought of it makes me cringe), so I think that was brave of you. And very wise. <br />I'm sure you guys will figure a way to work with it all! Sadists are far too inventive to let physical limitations spoil their fun...<br /><br />HugsStormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-50122140258501539212015-06-17T09:46:37.208+01:002015-06-17T09:46:37.208+01:00Hi Tori, I'm sorry that you are going to have ...Hi Tori, I'm sorry that you are going to have to restrict some aspects of physical play. Good on you for taking control. I'm so glad you were able to talk to your doctor's. The most important thing is keeping you safe.<br /><br />It will be an adjustment but I'm sure you and your Master will find a way to make it work. I too am with DF on maybe increasing the non - physical aspects of your dynamic.<br /><br />Hugs <br />Roz Rozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-73583278937508790802015-06-16T19:05:56.078+01:002015-06-16T19:05:56.078+01:00Allthough medical play restrictions can be difficu...Allthough medical play restrictions can be difficult to deal with. It is good to involve the doctors and adress the risks. At least you know what risks you take and what signals to watch for.Mr.Midashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10797875966054737821noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-56314355862874471542015-06-16T18:45:55.259+01:002015-06-16T18:45:55.259+01:00sorry to hear about all the restrictions you have ...sorry to hear about all the restrictions you have now tori, but better safe than sorry and I too would have loved to have seen their reactions when you asked them about s/m ...laughs....but you do need to take care of yourself...thanks for sharing some things in your post I didn't realise so am sure it will help others who read it...smiles<br /><br />hugsblossomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18233213834265183615noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-71159261881373630152015-06-16T17:48:37.023+01:002015-06-16T17:48:37.023+01:00So glad you have spoken openly with your doctor. T...So glad you have spoken openly with your doctor. That will help your Master take more pre-cautions, etc. <br /><br />My general knows, yet doesn't know. Ha! I'm going to have to tell though. I fear what he'll advise. (Not due to diabetic but other problems). Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-21179022217329806932015-06-16T17:21:33.009+01:002015-06-16T17:21:33.009+01:00All more reason to take extra good care of yoursel...All more reason to take extra good care of yourself! <br /><br />I'm with the others...he is sadistic (and caring) enough to find other ways ;)Mistyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07931554793023459482noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-44257967910436903242015-06-16T17:06:08.848+01:002015-06-16T17:06:08.848+01:00wow, that does seem like a lot of restrictions on ...wow, that does seem like a lot of restrictions on play :(<br /><br />at least they didn't rule out piss play?! (((hugs)))Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03012486777344302375noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-91496219869504154252015-06-16T16:18:06.649+01:002015-06-16T16:18:06.649+01:00Aww Tori, this sucks. Good for you for disclosing ...Aww Tori, this sucks. Good for you for disclosing to your doctors. You are taking control of this. <br />This is all new and I'm sure at the moment it feels as if this list to what you can't do is endless--but you will find ways to adapt. I'm wondering the same as DF--what about the mental side, including humiliation play?<br />Bleue D'âmehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12945301989408243513noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-81522803327916352112015-06-16T15:25:42.173+01:002015-06-16T15:25:42.173+01:00Sorry the diabetes is impacting you in such a way,...Sorry the diabetes is impacting you in such a way, but way to go for speaking to the doctors, that took some nerve! <br />Is the mental side of M/s likely to be ramped up - mindfucks, service, etc? Does that help fill the void of other things you can't do?<br />DelFontehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02877826634987802545noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-73215552567324587612015-06-16T13:59:51.702+01:002015-06-16T13:59:51.702+01:00Great to get some clear guidelines. I get the who...Great to get some clear guidelines. I get the whole loss of spontaneity. Im sure your Master will find a way around it. Lindahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01065514978492306145noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-75974781052839328682015-06-16T12:16:00.717+01:002015-06-16T12:16:00.717+01:00Sorry to hear about your diabetes. It is a wicked ...Sorry to hear about your diabetes. It is a wicked disease. But great to hear you are on top of it and are able to talk to your doctor about lifestyles and the dos and don't. And I hope you can still find ways to play that won't be harmful to you. Good luck and keep us updated on how you are doing.<br /><br />FDFlorida Domhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08785387941624829985noreply@blogger.com