tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post4483417395057529861..comments2023-05-21T15:25:29.957+01:00Comments on Pain's Pleasure: Pondering submitting to a womentorihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-47484072725602500122012-11-19T09:53:14.556+00:002012-11-19T09:53:14.556+00:00Im more open to the idea now than i ever was but i...Im more open to the idea now than i ever was but i do think i would need to know what the 'scene' was going to entail, i love humiliation but i seriously doubt i could take it from a woman.<br /><br />Hmm calling a woman Mistress yes i would take issue with that if i had to i would but it would be through gritted teeth lol<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-19078540152070004232012-11-18T23:38:10.098+00:002012-11-18T23:38:10.098+00:00It was very easy for me to submit to both my Maste...It was very easy for me to submit to both my Master and a woman. She has been a friend for a year now, and we've had lunch with her, hung out casually at her house, been to munches and parties together and she had flogged me before, so it was all pretty comfortable. I was comfortable with her, with how she wanted to dominate, and I felt that she was dominant, on a socializing level. I'm probably not explaining very well. But some people you meet and feel they are your equals, or more submissive, or more dominant, just a feeling they give off and has nothing to do with kink, just personality. She always struck me as dominant so I had no problem submitting to her in a scene. I was a bit surprised when Master said I had to call her Mistress, and I'm still a bit off on that part of it, but I did it and it was in obedience to HIM that I did it. <br /><br />I really, really liked the whole date, and my Master and our friend did too. We're going to do it again. ancilla_kssthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10968994155747861194noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-71542131164198645422012-07-24T08:34:33.391+01:002012-07-24T08:34:33.391+01:00hello Mr AP
I would say that yes i do intertwine ...hello Mr AP<br /><br />I would say that yes i do intertwine my submission with sexual acts but not just those alone, i have been with a women sexually so if that was incoporated into it then it wouldnt be a problem.<br /><br />I dont know exactly what i fear, perhaps there is a part of me that wanders if i would like it too much and the potential repurcussions it could have on the relationship with my Master.<br /><br />Also women scare me, we can be quite bitchy loltorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-64955373239035387692012-07-24T08:28:09.614+01:002012-07-24T08:28:09.614+01:00oh i do enjoy pushing limits blossom lol
This is...oh i do enjoy pushing limits blossom lol <br /><br />This is something thats been on the cards for a long time but just never been made reality but now im thinking more and more about it and really struggling to define why i think i would find it difficult.<br /><br />xxtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-71555518233694032842012-07-24T01:29:14.152+01:002012-07-24T01:29:14.152+01:00Do you intertwine your submission with sexual acts...Do you intertwine your submission with sexual acts? Do you fear engaging in a woman because of that intertwining? What is there to fear?<br /><br />Stay SINful<br />Mr. APAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-2901698648125747032012-07-23T23:41:14.477+01:002012-07-23T23:41:14.477+01:00ah tori pushing your limit that little bit further...ah tori pushing your limit that little bit further...smiles...i dont know if i could submit to a woman, i would struggle with the dynamics of it, i am quite strong willed myself so for me to do what a woman tells me to do...dont think that would work!!!...laughs but i hope you get out of it what you want...smiles<br /><br />blossom xblossomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18233213834265183615noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-89018768610888101042012-07-23T22:15:52.975+01:002012-07-23T22:15:52.975+01:00lol kitty why do your comments always give me more...lol kitty why do your comments always give me more to ponder...not that im complaining i like that.<br /><br />I do have a habit of trying to talk myself out of things which is why ultimatley he makes the decision for me then i have nothing to talk myself out of lol<br /><br />I have submitted to other men and also been double dommed by my Master and another dominant which were interesting experiences. With a women though i struggle with that concept because oh gosh this is going to sound so sexist lol but im happier to defer to men and well im scared i might get defensive and act out.<br /><br />Interesting comment that H made now im curious as to what his reasonings are for that reaction lol<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-18526174480115511502012-07-23T22:11:20.032+01:002012-07-23T22:11:20.032+01:00hi FD
Yep i get that i would still be submitting ...hi FD<br /><br />Yep i get that i would still be submitting but there wouldnt be that emotional connection which i have with my Master, i think its just getting into my head to see it as being a scene rather than execting or needing a bond to be present.<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-82653684239943233252012-07-23T13:52:58.862+01:002012-07-23T13:52:58.862+01:00That last paragraph, where you talk yourself strai...That last paragraph, where you talk yourself straight out of something, just made me smile. I think we call that overthinking and I recognize the symptoms.<br /><br />While there is no known cure, admitting that you have a problem does seem to help you know that that you have a problem. :)<br /><br />Why would a woman be different than a man? I would say that submitting to anyone different would be different. However, I talked with H about this the other night (a multiple sub/dom relationship) and he had a very interesting reaction. "That fantasy is more common than you think."<br /><br />Not sure if that meant him, but I did take note.<br /><br />:)Kitty the Submissive Wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00185859722963938064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-39608284416502436292012-07-23T13:21:16.983+01:002012-07-23T13:21:16.983+01:00Yes, I think you need to get out of your comfort z...Yes, I think you need to get out of your comfort zone and let it go. I think since you are submissive, you will find it exciting to submit to a woman. Regardless of the sex of the dom, you will still be submitting. And submitting to a woman may have its own special dynamic.<br /><br />FDFlorida Domhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08785387941624829985noreply@blogger.com