tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post4316550661723867693..comments2023-05-21T15:25:29.957+01:00Comments on Pain's Pleasure: Pick n mix submissiontorihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-81281551382042278642014-04-12T19:43:49.794+01:002014-04-12T19:43:49.794+01:00Ours was a journey of many years to get to the 24/...Ours was a journey of many years to get to the 24/7 M/s relationship. The word no, is not in my vocabulary any longer. At every level of our BDSM journey it always felt right at the place we were. With so many levels of kink I love how we can all support each other as we live with what works for us.Pepper in my Piehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16307042573267064100noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-28701124552306872242014-04-10T21:48:25.844+01:002014-04-10T21:48:25.844+01:00this is something I came to realise over the last ...this is something I came to realise over the last year- it can't always be something you like, not if you want to submit to another. It was a struggle, until I realise a couple of things - firstly, I already was and had submitted to things I didn't like both in the bedroom and out and that in fact I was getting angry and upset by the idea when I was reading about it on other people's blogs!<br />Secondly, when I excepted my inner feelings about being a slave (rather than a sub/bottom/just submitted) then everything fell into place beautifully. Can't quite explain it but I just had so much more peace around it...<br />I suppose because submitting to things I don't like is huge proof to me of my being a slave, and being a slave is what I crave and long to be, so it almost becomes a good thing and something of a blessing!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03012486777344302375noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-47678742856172077502014-04-10T13:07:46.094+01:002014-04-10T13:07:46.094+01:00We backed into this so the wrong way around....i d...We backed into this so the wrong way around....i don't know that either of us has any good idea of our limits - except for a few things that are more relationship than M/s or kink. We seem to be exploring that together. It's an odd way to do it i guess, but it's where we are. I like your explanation a lot.greengirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-86778566674054444562014-04-10T02:36:41.238+01:002014-04-10T02:36:41.238+01:00Very well said!! "If it was just about me ind...Very well said!! "If it was just about me indeed only submitting to what i liked and wanted, i would ask myself "am i really submissive?" Love this! It isn't always fun and it isn't always easy, but it is always worth it. Thanks for posting <br /><br />hugs<br />pAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com