tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post3285199021017864069..comments2023-05-21T15:25:29.957+01:00Comments on Pain's Pleasure: I need to remember i was a teenager once upon a timetorihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-84920011549070857822012-07-11T02:01:41.698+01:002012-07-11T02:01:41.698+01:00You offered what good you could and let her get on...You offered what good you could and let her get on with dealing with it in her own way. If she attaches so strongly to every boy she fancies that she cannot handle some minor separation that is something with which she will have to learn to cope. Ultimately that drama will be something your son (and you by collateral damage) should only face a few times, whereas she and her mates will have to face it with every new relationship.<br /><br />If placed in your situation I would prepare my son as best I can for the eventual fallout and be there to support him as he needs it. But you're a good Mum. You'll handle it smashingly.<br /><br />Stay SINful<br />Mr. APAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-64848701558636200332012-07-10T15:43:23.559+01:002012-07-10T15:43:23.559+01:00hello Mr AP
I dont feel like it was job well done...hello Mr AP<br /><br />I dont feel like it was job well done lol, i found it exasperating but amusing, the problem is he isnt as infatuated with her as she is with him so its only going to end in disaster which may potentially equal more teen drama...joyful lol<br /><br />tori xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-23071261736621358912012-07-10T07:49:20.508+01:002012-07-10T07:49:20.508+01:00I was into girls and snogging as early as 8 or 9, ...I was into girls and snogging as early as 8 or 9, as I can remember, but I was never so deeply entrenched in "needing" to be with any of my girlfriends -- or even my ex-wife -- that I couldn't handle days or even weeks without seeing them. Granted, I didn't grow up in the ever connected world that is omnipresent now, so days without contact was expected.<br /><br />I'm lucky that Genius Child, at 14, is well adjusted in that regard. While he does send a massive amount of texts on his mobile, we have it configured to run through Google Voice on the house WiFi connection so as to avoid additional charge issues.<br /><br />Should one of his girlfriend's ever have a similar reaction as your son's girlfriend, I doubt I would be as level headed as you. Job well done!<br /><br />Stay SINful<br />Mr. APAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-38358619778897670842012-07-09T18:34:52.803+01:002012-07-09T18:34:52.803+01:00hi Kat
I dont think she would hurt herself, i thi...hi Kat<br /><br />I dont think she would hurt herself, i think its just more that he is her first boyfriend and she is very insecure and well constantly needs confirmation from her peers that all is ok.<br /><br />I cant say i understand it because i just wasnt like that...late starter lol<br /><br />tori xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-52926648934316680902012-07-09T17:44:13.975+01:002012-07-09T17:44:13.975+01:00I was pretty boy crazy at 15 too. I don't rem...I was pretty boy crazy at 15 too. I don't remember being that bad. My first real long term boyfriend was at 16-18 so I remember when that relationship ended so did the boy crazies. <br /><br />Why would her friends need to check on her? Is she going to hurt herself? Hmmmm...maybe I wasn't that boy crazy.Kathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12084246943321375209noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-57574087687149372012012-07-09T16:44:24.897+01:002012-07-09T16:44:24.897+01:00hi ya faerie
No it wasnt easy shutting up, im qui...hi ya faerie<br /><br />No it wasnt easy shutting up, im quite proud of myself that i didnt say what was going through my head lol<br /><br />My son is 15 and so far (touch wood) its been relatively easy, my daughter at 10 is very strong willed so will just have to wait and see.<br /><br />tori xxtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-47675388943556964462012-07-09T14:12:26.461+01:002012-07-09T14:12:26.461+01:00Good job stepping back and shutting your mouth, no...Good job stepping back and shutting your mouth, not an easy thing to do. I thought my daughter(now 22) would be the more difficult teen to deal with. I am now discovering my son(almost 17)is much harder.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-37926165734530118572012-07-09T13:54:03.034+01:002012-07-09T13:54:03.034+01:00hi ya kitty
lol i doubt that very much, im not ve...hi ya kitty<br /><br />lol i doubt that very much, im not very good with handling girly teenage drama i dont think i was very comforting..lets just say im dreading when my daughter reaches the teens lol<br /><br />tori xxtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-28774491998752233702012-07-09T13:49:06.592+01:002012-07-09T13:49:06.592+01:00Oh. My. Word.
You're a better mom than I wo...Oh. My. Word. <br /><br />You're a better mom than I would have been, lol! <br /><br />Love,<br />KittyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com