tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post2765174307449776504..comments2023-05-21T15:25:29.957+01:00Comments on Pain's Pleasure: No game playingtorihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-67453418484918804552012-07-06T09:24:27.923+01:002012-07-06T09:24:27.923+01:00hi mouse
Absolutley agree, punishments are not fu...hi mouse<br /><br />Absolutley agree, punishments are not fun it defeats the object if they are enjoyed.<br /><br />As a fellow masochist i have to agree that sometimes although i dont think im topping from the bottom yes sometimes i behave in an indirect way to get pain and i dont know why because he is quite happy for me to ask for it but i find that difficult sometimes.<br /><br />I like being bound its grounding and tends to invoke calm and yes definitley aids in getting in the right headspace.<br /><br />ps<br /><br />hope your having a great time<br /><br />tori xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-34391968555818802692012-07-04T18:20:34.934+01:002012-07-04T18:20:34.934+01:00That's something Daddy is very clear about, pu...That's something Daddy is very clear about, punishments are never fun. He will go out of his way to be sure they are very much punishment. He's often said punishing a masochist with pain is a tricky balance. <br /><br />But often he's found they are topping from the bottom. Not outwardly, but subconsciously, they really want pain, but are mentally blocked from asking for it. Even tho they hate punishment, part of them does get what they need. <br /><br />Thankfully, Daddy can read mouse very well. We leave in a couple days, and mouse is getting mentally wrapped up in excitement and anxiety. Last night, knowing this will lead no where good, Daddy seized control. He decided to bind mouse tightly and let her stay that way. Immediately it was placing mouse back into the proper headspace. Today, mouse tho, not relaxed, feels much more contained. <br /><br />Hugs,<br />mousemousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17837530120535693314noreply@blogger.com