tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post2264159004103186601..comments2023-05-21T15:25:29.957+01:00Comments on Pain's Pleasure: Rome wasnt built in a daytorihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-22794588785800929862012-10-31T16:38:19.113+00:002012-10-31T16:38:19.113+00:00hi dancing and thanks.
I think everyone struggles...hi dancing and thanks.<br /><br />I think everyone struggles as some point or another, its not always easy and i think thats what alludes some, like any relationship it needs both to work at it.<br /><br />Harsh is good, i like harsh as long as im secure in how i feel.<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-77634582248367273372012-10-31T15:27:24.657+00:002012-10-31T15:27:24.657+00:00Thanks for the great post Tori. I agree it is diff...Thanks for the great post Tori. I agree it is difficult no matter how you start, we were both new to this type of dynamic and we still struggle tremendously but overall we are in a good place. I did not know how much control I would want and he did not know how much he wanted to take, eventually I realized we needed to work together on it instead of me getting bratty.<br /><br />On another note, I need harsh too. Who knew? dancingbarezhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05159330409168648147noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-59177799632018603792012-10-30T13:46:34.485+00:002012-10-30T13:46:34.485+00:00I think like you said the relationship has to evol...I think like you said the relationship has to evolve it would just get stagnent else and thats when things potentially can go awry.<br /><br />I used to think it was easier as well starting off as Dom/sub but im realising that this is not the case, for example with your relationship there is an established history, trust, security which is a good basis to start ttwd, with me and bossman we had to establish that along with ttwd and it takes time.<br /><br />x<br /><br />torihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-14442749686551196672012-10-30T13:42:20.893+00:002012-10-30T13:42:20.893+00:00Yes i know but i think the point i was trying to m...Yes i know but i think the point i was trying to make is that there are still difficulties but just ones that are different.<br /><br />His experience is an advantage in some ways i concede to that point, but an advantage of starting at the same point is there is i wander that more element of working together, whereas with the bossman he already knew what expectations he wanted and i follow.<br /><br />Oh i dont know...dont give me more to think about lol<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-54810298377738326752012-10-30T13:39:50.096+00:002012-10-30T13:39:50.096+00:00Yes its like there is plenty i want to say but im ...Yes its like there is plenty i want to say but im really finding it difficult to put it into words that make some sort of sense lol<br /><br />I think i needed to remind myself really of what my place is within our relationship.<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-90029458339061788352012-10-30T11:58:07.551+00:002012-10-30T11:58:07.551+00:00Thanks joey..hope your having a great holiday.
xThanks joey..hope your having a great holiday.<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-3986377172455322112012-10-29T12:38:30.608+00:002012-10-29T12:38:30.608+00:00I really like this post.
I have been thinking abo...I really like this post. <br />I have been thinking about what happens in a D/s relationship over time. Of course, any relationship evolves (or should), but I think it's a bit more intense and drastic in a power exchange relationship.<br /><br />There's just no substitute for the changes and growth that happens over the course of years.<br /><br />I used to be so sure that it was easier for people who start off as Dom/sub. But I think that you are right--there's just different kinds of difficult.<br />We all just learn and grow the best that we can.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-86973394830293849792012-10-29T12:15:14.316+00:002012-10-29T12:15:14.316+00:00What I was getting at was I do think it's been...What I was getting at was I do think it's been easier for you because of his experience rather than both starting at the same point. That has to be an advantage.<br /><br />happygirl<br /><br />xoxoxoxoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-37142225070185325592012-10-29T03:41:28.486+00:002012-10-29T03:41:28.486+00:00I totally understand the feeling of not being able...I totally understand the feeling of not being able to focus or having nothing to say. For me, the benefits of blogging outweigh those feelings. And, like this post, I find that when I sit and write anyway, often some of my best things come out.<br /><br />If nothing else, it seems like you have clarified some things you NEED in this life, and that is no minor feat. :)Kitty the Submissive Wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00185859722963938064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348741119843312019.post-67989379560147194242012-10-29T01:27:18.565+00:002012-10-29T01:27:18.565+00:00Great post. Thank you. Great post. Thank you. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com